BF of 6 years asked me to wear a diaper for him as it was a kink of his. Absolutely disgusted beyond belief and I've just moved out of his flat and ghosted him while he's at work.
I'm on fesser's side and am surprised by the replies saying that 'kink-shaming' is bad. You're allowed to have whatever kink, but I'm allowed to not like it. Why do I have to be okay with something just because it gives someone else a boner? 'OP could have been nicer' - BF could have been nicer about springing such a big ask on someone before checking whether they were okay with that kink.
@Toilet full of bugs @Fesshole 🧻 There’s “not liking it” and there’s “utterly fucking destroying the emotional health of someone who thought it was ok to be vulnerable around you”.
“No. I’m not into that. Maybe we need to reevaluate things?” is the adult way of doing this.
Wow, I don’t suppose you considered being an adult and using your words rather than being an utter cunt. Maybe your BF would’ve been understanding if you just told him that you didn’t want to wear a diaper.
Feels like a bit of an overreaction, bit harsh to yuk his yum like this, even if he was wanting to yum your yuk.
Fine to not be into something, it's an extreme kink for sure, and maybe you were looking for an exit anyway, but I can't help wondering if there might have been some middle ground you'd both have been happy exploring. 6 years is a lot of time to chuck away like a used diaper...
Mike Breedlove
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in reply to Fesshole 🧻 • • •'OP could have been nicer' - BF could have been nicer about springing such a big ask on someone before checking whether they were okay with that kink.
Sarah Brown
in reply to Toilet full of bugs • •@Toilet full of bugs @Fesshole 🧻 There’s “not liking it” and there’s “utterly fucking destroying the emotional health of someone who thought it was ok to be vulnerable around you”.
“No. I’m not into that. Maybe we need to reevaluate things?” is the adult way of doing this.
🐕 Paul 🦄
in reply to Fesshole 🧻 • • •Giles Moss
in reply to Fesshole 🧻 • • •Feels like a bit of an overreaction, bit harsh to yuk his yum like this, even if he was wanting to yum your yuk.
Fine to not be into something, it's an extreme kink for sure, and maybe you were looking for an exit anyway, but I can't help wondering if there might have been some middle ground you'd both have been happy exploring. 6 years is a lot of time to chuck away like a used diaper...
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