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Nowhere Girl

Nowhere Girl

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Nowhere Girl

gwynnion@mastodon.social

Formerly from Twitter and Mastodon.lol. Trans, bi, she / her. Writing, dreams, politics, science, metaphysics.

Blocking and muting you is the easiest thing in the world if you mouth off at me.

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Nowhere Girl
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Nowhere Girl

3 weeks ago • •

Nowhere Girl

3 weeks ago • •


"Why can't you just be an effeminate gay man?" is not a question anyone would ask a cis woman so I don't know why trans women have to endure hearing it.
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"Why can't you just be an effeminate gay man?"
[rolls eyes] This is literally some generic moderate bullshit pretending it isn't actually just compromising with the nazi concentration camps. "Hey, don't be trans, be this slightly less marginalized group, ok? That way the nazis won't go after you until after the trans girls are dead! Win-win, right?"
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in reply to Kalshann • 3 weeks ago • •
@Kalshann To me, it often comes across as: "Why can't you make yourself more attractive to me?" And I don't remember asking their opinion.
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in reply to Nowhere Girl • 3 weeks ago • •
Gods, that's so much worse too. Fucking humans.
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@Kalshann The question is intrinsic to the "transitioning is gay genocide" assholes like Ben Appel.

I've also heard it and variations thereof ("I was a tomboy so if I was a young person today, they would try to make me transition!") from cis women but that's mostly generic transphobia.

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@Kalshann I'm sure cis lesbians do a similar routine to trans men.

But it always has that slightly rapey Christian vibe of, "I consent! I consent! But didn't you forget someone? 🤔 "

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in reply to Nowhere Girl • 3 weeks ago • •
@Kalshann "butch flight" and other concern trolling about not enough butch lesbians these days
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i am going to
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My mom asked me that when I came out to her. 🙃
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Part of the problem is that I'm gay... just not gay that way. :spinny_cat_lesbian:
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in reply to Faith, Purple haired feminist 🧋 • 3 weeks ago • •
@faithisleaping You can see their poor little brains overheating trying to comprehend this very basic idea as you're telling them, too.
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@Nowhere Girl I likes the oestrogen I does.
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in reply to Nowhere Girl • 3 weeks ago • •
Funny thing is that wasn't an option either until after coming out for literally every trans woman I know. It was "stop being a pussy and man up! What are you gay?" sometimes hours earlier.
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