in reply to Sarah Brown

Love it. I got married in a corset and circle skirt made for me by an IRC friend who makes LARP costumes, the former navy taffeta and made for even deep pressure rather than body shaping in the traditional sense, the latter from a metallic blue fabric I picked out from John Lewis by way of being unable to stop stim-staring at it.

I did have a gender questioning period shortly before then, but settled on my gender being presumably-cis but entirely secondary to The Tism and more specifically the sensory stuff. Hence "skirt go spinny" as extremely an isolated thing in itself, and the corsetry intention being Wearable Hug. (I wore the corset over a yellow shirt. My spouse - demigender, not identifying that way at that time - wore a kilt, also for sensory reasons.)

I curse the Compulsory Not Shiny of male-coded clothing!