in reply to Sarah Brown

The difference on Mastodon is that more often than not, the tsk-tsking and language coaching are sincere efforts at maintaining a conversation and raising its level, not winning it. I choose this. Also: Tech Nerds > Crypto Nerds, change my mind.
in reply to System IV, Building K

I definitely prefer tech nerds to crypto peddlers. So no argument there.

But, I do have to say that the bits of chiding and tone policing I've received haven't felt like attempts at "earnest help" or raising the level of conversation. They've felt like messages that I'm not welcome. Which may or may not be what was intended.

Happily there hasn't been very much of that aimed directly at me, although it makes me pretty uncomfortable when I see it aimed at others. Not sure I've seen any of it that I'd call actual attempts to help. Maybe the only exception is the frequent requests to use Alt Text on images. Those are rarely personal or directed at specific posts and instead just trying to strengthen a good cultural norm.

in reply to Sarah Brown

@steinarb
Side note: I don't know about other people here, but I don't have an inaccurate "perception of them" because I have simply no "perception of them". I stay away from Twitter/LinkedIn/Facebook/Bluesky/TikTok/WhatsApp/... because they are centralized, under the control of a company that tries to make money from their "free" service.
I see no reason to presume their users are anything but normal people.
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@neilasaurus @goodthinking People don't use social media because they care about computers. Computers are a way to use social media. Why would they want to hang out where people talk about stuff they find boring?

The vast majority of people in the world have no interest in how cars work, they just use them. Imagine if every time you went to the market there was some weirdy beardy telling you your overhead cam was frotzed and you're a bad person because of it.

in reply to Mike J๐Ÿ‘น๐Ÿ€ ๐Ÿค˜๐Ÿป

@mikej @neilasaurus @goodthinking
I mean, it has to be said sometime, right? I know it's annoying but if the overhead cam being frotzed was causing excess CO2 emissions and you just did not care, that chiding would be warranted.

The chiding here, be nice and follow the rules of the community, is part of the solution to the melting world outside. If you don't follow the rules and it leads to the world ending, you deserve that chiding. Not a one-to-one, but sounds like #DontLookUp .

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