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Do cis people in the UK actually think there has ever been a point at which transgender medicine was widely and routinely available on the NHS?

Guys, it never has. When they exist at all, the services are chronically underfunded with waiting lists that literally stretch for decades.

To a first approximation, if you want to medically transition in the UK, you are on your own, unless you want to fight a war of attrition for years.

TERFs like to pretend that you can easily access NHS gender identity services as if it were just a thing people do.

It appears some people have believed their fairy tales. However badly you think trans people are treated by the medical establishment in the UK, I promise you that the reality is worse, and always has been.

“Children on puberty blockers”. Fucking state of it. There are no children on puberty blockers. Not because they’re trans, anyway.

in reply to Sarah Brown

Totally endorse your summary of the lies, but there is a difference between underfunded and an exercise in bloody-mindedness on the one hand and wholly unavailable on the other. Many of us have no choice but to grit our teeth and grind through the system. Which is as bad as you say.
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@Isabel Ruffell I transitioned with a lot of people who tried and were unable to access it.

Even at the peak of trans acceptance in the UK, being able to access ANYTHING depended on your postcode at least, and probably a few other things. Some PCTs as we’re basically refused to refer anyone for anything at all.

At which point, you either had the money to go round them, or you found ways to get it 😞

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yes, my first attempt at transitioning was without any guarantee that the local health authority would pay for anything but hormones (and having to persuade the local shrinks to refer me to a GIC at all). I am now in my ninth year of a second attempt. Now that I am relatively close to finishing, I am in a position to make other arrangements, but that wasn't the case earlier. And it is awful that I feel fortunate to have made it so far, but then I conside whatr other folk face.
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I basically had to self fund treatment to a certain extent but was incredibly lucky, combined with have a great GP, and being in Wales where they didn’t have a GIC at the time, that surgery was referred directly so I was one of those rare people who went to Heywards Heath. My partner did not so I used what I had saved, expecting I would have to pay, to pay for her. I know plenty who did the exceptionally slow NHS grind. I was just lucky with my circumstances.
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I would love to ask a TERF to summarise their achievements in removing healthcare from trans people, and then summarise how easy it is for trans people to get it now. They know, of course they do. It's all doublethink.

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“NHS to end practice of back rubs for Godzilla”

If you think the NHS was ever actually giving trans children puberty blockers, then I’m afraid you have fallen for a TERF fairy tale. The NHS has never actually done decent treatment for trans children. news.sky.com/story/children-to…

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in reply to Sarah Brown

For reference, the daughter in question turns 13 soon. And it's not that anyone was trying to give puberty blockers to an eight-year-old, but the battle was to get her the possibility of having them when they would help.
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@David Matthewman Ok. Credit to her parents for fighting that battle, and maybe the Tavistock might have considered possibly doing it on a trial basis at some point (“maybe” is doing a lot of work there), but they basically don’t do that, and never have. Their standard mode of operation is to just keep talking until people age out of their service and can join an adult GIC waiting list.

The headline is literally just a reaffirmation of the way the NHS has always behaved. It’s giving the impression that it’s ending a practice of medical intervention for trans kids.

But to end something, it has to have started in the first place.

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Uhhhh bbc.com/news/business-68534703

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I was watching the Portuguese election coverage last night. Ignore the Chega TV banner in the top left; they were just rebroadcasting RTP3’s coverage. What struck me was where in the UK we report turnout percentages, in Portugal the media report the opposite: the percentage of voters who stayed at home (abstenção in the bottom right). I wonder if there’s something about the political history of Portugal that makes this so.
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@Alisdair Calder McGregor Ooh, that's a good point; I hadn't noticed whether the numbers actually were %ages of the total electorate rather than of those who voted... And annoyingly they're not doing the UK thing of election coverage continuing well into the next day.

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I need privacy, not because my actions are questionable, but because some things are just none of your sodding business.

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I'll give up my privacy, when...
Politician's conduct all interactions in public & on the record
Politician's publish their tax records, bank statements, shareholdings, w oversight by open forum
Politician's don't allow lobbying of any kind
All corporations pay their taxes in full, no offshore crap
Free healthcare, education, social care for all worldwide
When the industrial-miltary complex is dismantled
When all wars are abolished & nukes

Sorry, got carried away there, but its my list

in reply to Neil Brown

I like the one which says: I need #privacy not because I've got something to hide, but because you can't be trusted.

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“So sometimes my roommate, with whom I’ve been paying a mortgage for 10 years and looking after a herd of cats, does me against the wall with a strap on. Do you think I should risk telling her I have feelings for her? I’m pretty sure she’s straight.” reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpd…

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Only 12.5% of the accommodation in this hotel is occupied, which makes one ruminate.

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That took me a while 😀 Now I wonder, if I'd heard it rather than read it, would I have struggled the other way round?

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So, just in case you needed the heads up - noauthority.social is a fascist server; appears to be a refuge for nazis who got tired of having their previous server, noagenda.social, defederated by literally everyone. I just caught some nazi rando in my replies and after blocking him, hopped over to his timeline to see who he's talking to and it's literally all other fascists from noauthority.social. Strong defederate with extreme prejudice recommendation for admins but it's your life.

#Fediblock

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@Paulos_the_fog Yes, but it doesn't do what most people would think it does. It prevents YOU from seeing all posts, from that instance; as if you muted them all. They can still see and interact with your posts. In fact, it's pretty hard to stop people from SEEING your posts even if you have them blocked; they can just open a new window on a big neutral server like Social. But if you block individually, they can't interact with your posts, which is generally what you want re: nazis.

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The actual transcript excerpts from retired Army Lieutenant Colonel David Slater’s dating-site chats with his mystery gf are quite something. It’s as if HAL 9000 were trying to seduce Dave Bowman instead of lock him outside the ship.

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just spent longer than I'd like to admit waiting for my mobile wifi hotspot to appear as an option because I forgot I renamed it "Searching..."

hoisted by my own petard!

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Hoppy Notoonol O Doy to thoso who colobroto!

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O hovo no odoo of thoro's o doopor sognofoconco to todoy on portocolor boong o doy thot only hos O os o vowol, bot ovon of not, ot os o good odoo.

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Here’s why the NHS were happy to vaccinate me with MMR the other day. From UK govt advice from
2019:

• individuals born between 1970 and 1979 may have been vaccinated against measles and many will have been exposed to mumps and rubella during childhood. However, this age group should be offered MMR wherever feasible, particularly if they are considered to be at high risk of exposure.

• individuals born before 1970 are likely to have had all three natural infections and are less likely to be susceptible. MMR vaccine should be offered to such individuals on request or if they are considered to be at high risk of exposure.

Tl;dr: younger GenX and older Millennials in the UK were likely given inadequate protection against measles and none against mumps and rubella: vaccinate on sight.

Older GenX and boomers: just give them the vaccine if they ask for it.

in reply to Sarah Brown

I lost some records and got one dose of MMR in 2003. Do you happen to know if this is adequate or do they want to do more topups?
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I recall that you had whooping cough many months ago, which I was reminded of because I also got it last autumn. Somebody on here told me recently that it was included in the tetanus booster. Research done some years ago shows that people don't need to the tetanus boosters, but I guess whopping cough wasn't part of the study? Anyway, I haven't had that shot in 20 years now and I'm guessing virtually no others adults have either.
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Oh wow, this is news to me <immediately goes to track down local vaccination services>

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RIP to everyone killed by the borrow checker for their hubris but im different. and better. maybe even better than the borrow checker

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in reply to Matthew Garrett

I'm easily better than the borrow checker, that's why I can write safe bug free C++ code.

[quietly shoving CVE list into a closet]


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Went to an NHS vaccine drop in centre and said, “I had a single measles vaccine 49 years ago. Could I have an MMR please?”

No quibbles. I am now in the queue for an MMR.

I will not go blind because of Andrew sodding Wakefield.

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@Alexandra Lanes Dupuutren's appears to have gone into remission overnight. I guess my body is too busy doing measles things to worry about fucking my hands.

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Please boost if you like French Fries, or if you feel like you're barely coping in a meaningless void of existence.
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If I were still teaching methods, I could use these boost numbers to illustrate a double barreled question (triple barreled if you add "boosted for survey methods teachers" #sociology )

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Heather is truly one of the most amazing queer writers I've had the pleasure of discovering.

Fellow nerdy sapphics (or anyone else, really 😅) who want to read more of her stuff: Check out Cattywampus at theheatherhogan.substack.com – you won't regret it. 💪 Maybe start with theheatherhogan.substack.com/p… or theheatherhogan.substack.com/p… or


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why starship consoles explode

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Anxiety is my constant companion. I’m always anxious and it only varies in degrees. It’s been this way my entire life. Nothing really changes that fact.

Do you deal with anxiety?

#AskingAutistics #ActuallyAutistic @actuallyautistic

image: @worrywellbeing

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I try to be aware emotionally and physically which is difficult so when I feel 😬. I used to try to hide it from myself. Mostly because most things I tried didn’t work. Probably those memories were shaped when I was a different person. So if I take my old anxiety’s and acknowledge that happens and I wasn’t so aware I try and be incredibly kinder in general to myself. I also try to see what I was doing before the emotion sets in to process what came before.🧐

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I’m pleased to announce that almost all of the episodes of Just Plain Sense from Jan 2009 (episodes 52-90) have been archived on the Internet Archive. Approx 170 snapshots of the web site are also available through the WayBack machine. Access the audio content at archive.org/details/jps-90-ali…

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Lab mice
@legumancer in college i had a job at a bio lab and you would not believe how easy it was for the labels to fall off the transgenic fruit fly tubes
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oh no! Lol

Once when I was a kid, my biologist uncle asked my sister, cousins and I for ideas on getting rats to pee, because he needed urine samples. (My sister was the only one who had an idea. It was, "just squeeze them!") Now I wish I knew how to make rats *not* pee while I'm holding them.


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Yeah this is actually a really good simple breakdown of GOT as an algorithm that cuts through the FUD. and BS that shroud the real logic of how it works
in reply to Charlie Stross

well written explanation that no in fact this AI emperor has no clothes. Pattern matching. Yes. Getting quite good when scope is limited. But this is blatantly obvious because none of these AI firms particularly google are using these tools in their core business. Like detecting gmail spammers. And where used horrible results. Like current google search. Which is worst ever.


Today's legal conundrum. If I let you decide between red and green smarties and you decide on a blue one, did you make a decision?
in reply to Alexandra Lanes

I made a decision but not in response to your request. Same as if you offered me red or green sweeties but I decided to, say, clean my glasses.
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Why don’t they build moon landers like weebles? (I assume there must be a reason!) wandering.shop/@skrishna/11198…


IM-1 update: Guess what?

They think…..it tipped over

#space #intuitivemachines


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in reply to Zoë O'Connell

I was wondering if 10 series of Robot Wars taught us nothing? No srimech? No flipper? With the low gravity, imagine the potential for a backflip on the moon.
in reply to Zoë O'Connell

I watched enough Robot Wars growing up, all future lunar Landers need a srimech system built in.

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A friend who's new to fedi asked me for context for this. I regret that sometimes I am entirely context-free.

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Combined answers from the Microsoft Community forum to the important question: "What's the maximum number of slides allowed in Microsoft PowerPoint?"

"Every slide is identified numerically by a Long number, meaning that the theoretical maximum is around 2,147,483,648"
"Personally, I make it a rule never to include more than 10,000,000 slides in a presentation. One slide a second is about all people can absorb at best, and very few audiences will sit there and absorb information at that rate for half a year."

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Americans wondering how on earth all the Taylor Swift fans got to last week’s concert at the Melbourne Cricket Ground when there’s no sea of car parking next to the stadium:



If you use a laptop with a trackpad which you can scroll with two fingers, and you don’t have a pinkie related disability, does your little finger do this?
in reply to Alexandra Lanes

To add even more variety, when I use the first two fingers to do something, I keep the others curled, not sticking out.
in reply to Ozzy

@Ozzy The third is just about happy to be curled, but when it’s raised above the trackpad the pinkie feels like it has to be elevated too
@Ozzy

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Out on the old SUP, GoPro mounted on the front, remote control shutter release on the paddle. Contre jour.

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Did you know you can't use 'Beef Stew' as a password?
It's not stroganoff

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There are white sauce, brown sauce, and orange sauce. The last one only just counts because it’s really named for the fruit not the colour. But ANYWAY can fedi think of any other sauces named for their colour?

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huh, I just said out loud "Too much cheese!" I must have your allocation, soz

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Dear Lady Chief Justice....

Open Letter to the LCJ: HMCTS guidance on public access to courts
courtobservers.org/2024/02/18/…

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people say the big class one railroads don't do innovation, but here is norfolk southern demonstrating their new folding trainset on the acela mainline

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There are a few weird differences between opposite-sex marriage, same-sex marriage, and civil partnerships. In particular, in the grounds on which the partnerships can be annulled on the application of one partner.

The first is that same-sex marriages aren't voidable for reasons of non-consummation; basically it used to mean "PIV sex" and Parliament didn't fancy trying to define consummation for same-sex couples in legislation.

The stranger one is that only marriage is voidable for reasons of venereal disease.