“I tried the fediverse and didn’t follow anyone and it sucked, so I stopped and went back to Twitter again.”

These people would have hated Twitter circa 2008 when it had pretty much exactly the same issue.

But that’s the point of social media: to find likeminded people with common interests. Somewhere along the line that changed into social media being a thing that tells you what you think, and what you should be liking.

That’s easy, but it’s mental refined sugar. It’s just incredibly crap for you.

If you want interesting, fun and stimulating stuff, follow interesting, fun and stimulating people.

in reply to Sarah Brown

I mean, the fediverse has well over a million regularly active users, and many more occasional ones. Some of those are gonna be writing stuff you want to read.

If someone looks vaguely interesting, FOLLOW THEM. They will likely be boosting other stuff you find interesting. Follow the people who post that. This way you will home on on “your people”.

It’s really that simple.

in reply to Sarah Brown

I created a Twitter account very early (my sequential user ID had 5 digits) and then didn’t use it for 4 years or so because nothing really happened there. On mastodon I found a lot of people (many moving from Twitter, but many new to me) almost immediately.

But I reckon it really depends on your interests. For many topics, mastodon is a void. The vanPoli tag has 3 posts per week or so. All the debate about Vancouver urban planning and cycling is still on Twitter.

Unknown parent

friendica (DFRN) - Link to source

Sarah Brown

@zimowski If you aren’t seeing the other people on your server, there are two reasons for this. Either defederation (unlikely unless you’re looking for shitheads on shithead instances), or far more likely, they aren’t federated to your server because NOBODY IS FOLLOWING THEM THERE.

I repeat, if posts aren’t making it to your server, it’s because NOBODY IS ASKING FOR THEM.

If you want to see someone’s posts on your server, maybe try following them?

Unknown parent

friendica (DFRN) - Link to source

Sarah Brown

@zimowski “Enjoying aggression”

I just went to my feed and looked at the first posts. They are, in order:

A news article about taxation

A picture of a friend’s pet

An article about renewable energy use and how it’s increasing

A technical support question about video hosting

Someone posting their daily Wordle result

Landscape photography

News about Ukraine

Commentary on what Twitter’s death means for LGBT rights

Someone saying good morning.

Oh, and these are all within 5 minutes.

Honestly, the only aggression here (other than reporting on the Russian stuff but, you know, current events), is coming from you.

in reply to Sarah Brown

> Somewhere along the line that changed into social media being a thing that tells you what you think, and what you should be liking.

I really appreciate that Mastodon has no algorithm. I've set up my timeline with exactly the kind of people and content I want to see, and it's finite in quantity. There's no algorithm to push an agenda on me, or to keep me engaged with a never-ending feed of content.

There's only what I asked for. No more, no less.

Unknown parent

friendica (DFRN) - Link to source

Sarah Brown

@zimowski @Alexandra Lanes Your server isn't polling for posts. The remote server sends them. It does this to all followers when someone makes the post.

What it's not going to do is go back and send every post that an account has made when you follow, because that would be spam.

Therefore, if you wish to comment on an old post, simply enter its URL in the search box. Your server will then go and get it, and you can reply or repost as you see fit.

This has been explained so very many times now that I'm starting to think what you're doing here is some sort of weird performance art.

Unknown parent

mastodon - Link to source

Now -> Her_Doing@sunny.garden

@zimowski
Z, you've been rude to everyone in this entire thread. That is not welcome here, & on Twitter I would have blocked you in an instant. (And I will here, if you respond w rudeness to me.)

However, on the chance you are genuinely asking in good faith, the other way to find people is to put a hashtag in the search box - #Taiga, #Java, a favourite band, or whatever you are interested in. It will help you find people w common interests whom you may wish to follow.

Good luck.