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in reply to Alexandra Lanes

How does one "do" friendica. I don't particularly want to post things, but being able to comment would be good, if that's a friendica thing?
in reply to kæt

@kæt I don’t understand. You literally did just comment on a friendica post?
@kæt
in reply to Alexandra Lanes

Oh, I see. It's two-way from mastodon is it? The friendica post content is presented to me here as a link. But unlike RSS, if I comment on mastodon, the replies are federated to friendica?

I was confused, expecting either the content and replies to both be embedded within my mastodon client or else neither.

in reply to kæt

@kæt It’s two-way, yes. Or rather, they’re both activitypub servers so use the same protocol to exchange messages. Dunno why the content might just be a link though. Sorry.
@kæt
in reply to Alexandra Lanes

@chiffchaff The confusion may be that a Friendica post has (can have) title and content, and when it gets federated to Mastodon all we see is the title and a link back to the full post on its server. But you can just reply to that stub here and it gets federated back as a comment.
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I just want all TERFs who hate read me to know that earlier this week, I used a communal changing room. I was naked. There were other women in there. Nobody gave a shit.

Please do feel free to seethe, though.

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Since Brexit, the lack of a proper trade agreement means I will have to pay import VAT on my little sailboat when I take her to France.

I asked on a UK boating forum for some recommendations for a tax advisor to assist with the process. The overwhelming answer was, “just do tax evasion. You probably won’t get caught”.

This may provide an insight into the mindset of British exceptionalism.

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in reply to Sarah Brown

[sigh] I am suggesting avoidance, which is absolutely legal.
in reply to wrack

@wrack Except a few months ago there was a story in the local press where they impounded and boat and fined the owner for exactly this sort of pissing about with shell companies.

Please, I’m begging you, read the room.




I wonder whether the Pavilion B Common Room at DAMTP is buzzing with talk of all this! mastodon.social/@Dtl/110858637…


Interesting! Newtonian Gravity seems to break down at very very low accelerations - perhaps the end of dark matter models for the universe?

phys.org/news/2023-08-smoking-…






Internet forums do my head in sometimes.

“Hi, I want to do A. I will need help with this. Does anyone have recommendations for someone who can provide these professional services?”

“Don’t do A. Do B instead”

“Thanks, but B does not interest me. I’m looking for someone to help me do A”

“You could do C”

“It’s my understanding that C will get me arrested for tax evasion, which is why I need someone to help me do A”

“Ok, have you tried B?”

ARGH!

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in reply to Sarah Brown

I'm often on the other side of the xy problem where someone shows up wanting to do the tax evasion...



The polycule iMessage group. @Sylvia Knight asks if we want anything from the shops.

Me, typing in teensy keyboard on Apple Watch: milk

Eggs

Bleach

@Zoe O'Connell, next to me: “you can actually type stuff on your watch?”

Me: “almost”

Zoe: “huh?”

Me: “look at your phone…”

Phone: new message from Sarah: “Earl Greg”

#EarlGreg

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Stopped at an M&S food place on the way back from working on the boat yesterday. Very knackered and verging on hypoglycaemic, and the only fizzy drinks they had in were sugar feee ones.

And I’m like, cut the moralising, you pricks. Sometimes you really fucking need sugar.

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Sarah Brown
@Becky is not a bear I discovered the hard way that it knows exactly what to do with sucralose an’all.


Most adorbz thing I've seen in weeks!

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Burning a candle here for Trump to spend the rest of his life in ADX Florence.

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in reply to Sarah Brown

house arrest in Mar-a-lago sounds more likely, if even that
in reply to marlies

I don’t wish the American penal system on anyone but oh boy am I tempted to make an exception for him
in reply to Sarah Brown

I assume he'll get pardoned the moment there's a republican president.
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in reply to Sarah Brown

gosh. This is such a sad story. And all too common. Sad to hear about her decline over the last decade.



The bit of middle age where you fall asleep on the sofa because you’re too tired to get up and then randomly awake fully clothed feeling like arse at 2am … hate that.


The TERF, in whose head I live rent free, hasn’t done any stupid shit that I’m aware of for HOURS, and there’s nowt on the telly. #bored
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NatalyaD

OK That made me giggle out loud.

Actually I need a new mattress... But unlike those grifting .....s I will buy my own.

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TERFs and bedbugs: One is very fond of mattresses and sucks the life out of their victims, living a life of obligate parasitism.

The other is an insect.

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in reply to Sarah Brown

By the way, I know you're reading this because you can't help yourself, so I have a message just for you, Ms H, and I know you're reading it from my profile, so the formatting will be preserved. I have a message for you:

TOUCH
SOME
GRASS
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Sarah Brown
@Sapere Aude Who am I that I should raise discourse level?


Interesting question just came up re driving in the UK on Reddit. Someone wants to go from the M11 to the A3 and asks which way round the M25 they should go. These roads are pretty much equidistant regardless of whether you go clockwise or anti-clockwise round London.

That’s the route we take to Scarlet, so I have opinions on this. Go clockwise from the M11 and you encounter the Dartford crossing. This is a toll crossing, and is often very congested.

Go anti-clockwise and you pass the Heathrow section.

For me, there is no contest. Pay the damn toll. It may be annoying to have to put up with the Dartford crossing, but the Heathrow section of the M25 is the very arsehole of hell and to be avoided at all costs.

Interestingly, most commentators felt the same.

in reply to Sarah Brown

Did anyone suggest going straight through? Doesn't the A3 technically go across London Bridge?
in reply to Charlotte Benton

@Charlotte Benton Straight through will have you gibbering and worshiping Cthulhu by the time you come out the other side.


This post is addressing a specific TERF. I’m pretty sure she hate-reads me, and I think it’s important to note that, and I want to be very clear on this:

I still think you’re akin to a bedbug or a pubic louse.

You come at the queen or her friends, you better not miss, asshole.

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Me: Why they pointing a gun at him? They don’t need to point a gun at him! He’s in the bin!

@Sylvia Knight: It’s America!

Me: Good point. Pointing a gun at people is just how they say “hello” there.

bbc.co.uk/news/av/world-us-can…

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in reply to Sarah Brown

@Sarah Brown @Sylvia Knight I assume most Americans aren’t terrified by this state of affairs and would think it’s us who are weird for not waving lethal weaponry about.
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Sarah Brown

@RocheLimit @Sylvia Knight @Viking Chieftain "I physically cannot."

"Stop resisting!" BANG BANG BANG



Smirks in "smug climber/sailor"

My coiled cables uncoil straight, so there.

in reply to Sarah Brown

I see your smirky sailor, and raise you a smirky stageworker / theater lighting tech.

It's definitely one of those skills when you see someone doing it wrong it's a hard fight not to fling yourself across the room and tackle them "NO NO NO NO NO! WRONG WRONG WRONG! GIMME THAT"

#adhd #detail #cable #cabling #nerdskills




Thinking about heat pumps, since there's been waffle on the radio about them recently. My mental model of a heat pump is that you have unit(s) outside, and aircon unit(s) indoors which you can run either to cool or heat your preferred rooms.

However, what's being talked about on the radio seems to consist of hooking a heat pump up to replace your gas boiler and warm your radiators. Is this more effective or efficient? It seems to me that as the chances of hot weather increase you'll want to cool your house for some of the year, and this doesn't do that.

in reply to Alexandra Lanes

Traditional model in this country has been to hook them up to low-temperature wet-underfloor systems. Recently they've started producing higher efficiency/temperature ones which can hook into an existing CHS, but you might need your radiators upsized.
in reply to Sion [main]

@Sion [main] I think @mobbsy has underfloor heating (wet, if I remember seeing the spaghetti of tubes rightly) and described it has having horrid latency so it takes forever to get to whatever temperature you wanted.
in reply to Alexandra Lanes

indeed, not helped by the giant mass of poured concrete that the pipes are set into.

However, it's unobtrusive, no radiators on walls, warm floors are lovely in winter and the house stays pretty much constant temperature.

in reply to Alexandra Lanes

daikin.be/content/internet/int… sort of thing
in reply to Adam

AIUI they're basically "drill hole through wall of the room to be heated; install unit A on the outside and unit B on the inside; supply with electricity. I think they'd be an adjunct to the existing gas CH rather than a replacement.
in reply to Adam

@Adam Yes, I think that’s probably what I’d want for the downstairs living area.
@Adam
in reply to Alexandra Lanes

Do let me know if you find anything interesting in your research!
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@Peter Ellis If I were to do this I think I’d have ducts in the loft for the upstairs rooms. Maybe the two big downstairs rooms would be more of a challenge.



From the trotinete (e-scooter) rental scheme I use in Faro. It may be passive aggressive, but it made me laugh.

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Netflix: 12 euros
Disney+: 9 euros
HBO Max: 7 euros
Sky Showtime: 7 euros

Not including Amazon or Apple because you get other stuff with that

Total = 35 euros per month.

NordVPN = 9 euros per month

Just saying.

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in reply to Sion [main]

@Sion [main] On catgirls specifically. I feel part of the trans experience has somehow passed me by
in reply to Alexandra Lanes

Oh, yes, me too. In my case I put it down to not being sufficiently girl, not being sufficiently cute, or not being sufficiently young. See also thigh-highs, which I would definitely have done when younger if sufficiently cute (and if they had been as available as now).
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in reply to Sion [main]

@Sion [main] I tried them in my early transition (also lockdown!) clotheshorse phase and thought I looked kind of cute in them. They never stayed put though.
in reply to Alexandra Lanes

Maybe you just don't have the right shaped head? :blobcatSad: (Like the way I can never get behind-the-head straps to work properly, on anything from VR headsets to masks.)
in reply to Alexandra Lanes

Oh right! Either early phases you've not got enough thigh, or nobody's telling you to use tape.

(I can imagine you in cat ears though. Looking somewhat bemused.)

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I do wish that on days like today that my Dupuytren’s Disease had read the medical textbooks that describe it as “painless”.


railadvent.co.uk/2023/08/polic… This is rather amazing. As in the the 1963 robbery, they interfered with signals to get the train to stop. There was an excerpt from an incident log on the birdsite which I’ve shamelessly lifted here but I have no idea of its provenance. I’d be fascinated to read more.
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@geekylou :transgender_flag: Probably not quite that well informed? Most people kind of understand signals by analogy with traffic lights (though they probably don’t understand yellow) but are probably entirely unaware of track circuits.

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Ian Molton
So it was... Duh!
in reply to Sarah Brown

re: Experiment. What do you see if you’re reading this from Mastodon or one of its clones?
from GoToSocial + pinafore


Brain has reached saturation point today. I am in my nest in bed. That is all.
in reply to Sarah Brown

Oooh, if you’re fully saturated, does that mean we can add seed particles to initiate crystal precipitation?

Who doesn’t love some fresh brain crystals?



Just reread Peter Hamilton’s Salvation Sequence. So good, and lots of fun to read the second time round. I really hope there’s a sequel in the works.


Reddit can be a useful knowledge base, but there are certain subject areas where the consensus voice will confidently, clearly, emphatically state something that is simply wrong.

My current irritation is r/sailing, which has a large number of people who have clearly never sailed beyond the yacht club bar, or maybe a small lake, and have precisely zero clue about the interplay between wind and current (because they never experience the latter), spouting off bullshit with authority.

And there’s no point arguing with them, but my god, the extent to which they are smug about being wrong is irritating as fuck.

in reply to Sarah Brown

@ajlanes @thelocalecho @zoe Crib Goch wasn't near-death either, but I still felt profoundly unwise wandering along a steep spine of wet, slick rock in dense fog over a 500m drop to either side.


Marks and Spencer proving that gluten free sandwiches don’t need to be made of cardboard and despair. Others take note.
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friendica (DFRN) - Link to source
Sarah Brown
@Andy H3 It's gluten free. It's absolutely not made from rye.


Just looked at M&S Per Una for the first time in a decade and, OMG you guys, it’s got really really gay.

Utterly, profoundly, homosexual.

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Sarah Brown
@Baroque Mongoose definitely not non gendered. Very obviously female-coded, but … gay


Been walking the banks of the Stort with a view to paddling on it. Conclusion: it’s an unfriendly weed-choked ditch.


The barely concealed glee from climate doomers with their crescendo of “look at the graphs! We’re all going to die, and it was totally your fault for putting an aluminium bun case in the black bin that one time” is, I have to be honest, kinda getting me down.

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in reply to Sarah Brown

@Sarah Brown While I agree that it's the governments and industries that are the biggest polluters and have the most power to change things - if they want to. I still think that what many millions of people do or don't do also matters. If nothing else to keep hope up and despair down.
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in reply to Shimriez

@Maria Karlsen When I say none of it makes any difference, I'm specifically talking about the effect individual actions have on climate change. To a first approximation, this is zero, and has little scope for it to be any other number.

I agree that we can very definitely make a difference in how people feel, and this is the source of my complaint: the constant stream of "we are all going to die, because we are filthy eco-sinners" articles just make people feel like shit.

It's basically doom and gloom protestantism, but with the climate playing the role of their god.



Because there are images of child sexual abuse circulating on Twitter (or whatever it’s called) and Elon Musk has actively intervened to ensure the perpetrators retain their accounts, I judge it no longer psychologically or legally safe to remain on Twitter. I’ve deleted my account.

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in reply to Alexandra Lanes

I was going to stop using it once TweetDeck becomes unavailable next week anyway (if that's still happening), keeping account to prevent appropriation of id.