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@earthquake

At first I thought fracking, but almost all fracking in Poland is east or north of there. ...Maybe something top secret blew up underground?



The wave seems to finally be breaking, thank fuck!


Repeatedly, the trajectory of anti-trans politics is an immediate spike in panic / support, followed by a sharp decline.

As "parents' rights" panic collapses in the US, Canadian conservatives are setting themselves up for a losing battle. #cdnpoli

Anti-trans platforms lose elections - LGBTQ Nation
lgbtqnation.com/2023/11/anti-t…


in reply to Sarah Brown

@mercedesallen And there will be no consequences for the suffering they caused. At a minimum there should be public, permanent oppo files on these monsters.
in reply to Sarah Brown

@mercedesallen I’m sort of hoping this - the whole counterrevolution against any process made since the 60s - is all an extinction spike, like the anti abortion referendum in Ireland in the 1980s.

Not confident, but hopeful.



What is it about despicable people and obnoxious comparisons? TERFs love their “at least the Taliban know what a woman is” and now Douglas Murray is writing in the Jewish Chronicle that “at least the Nazis felt bad about killing people”...



I appear to be developing a TP-Link Jetstream Switch habit.

They’re good switches though.



Which philistine decided to call it MOCA and not 1000BASE2?
in reply to Sarah Brown

@Sarah Brown I want home networking with vampire taps. (Not really but I am sad I missed that era of networking)


Tesco were so preoccupied with the fact that they COULD, they never stopped to wonder whether they SHOULD.

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Increasingly getting the impression that MacOS Sonoma is a lemon, and best avoided.

Interestingly, when it bricked my M1 Pro MBP, and I had to recover from the recovery partition, it reinstalled Ventura.

And the new Macs ship with Ventura, with no Sonoma upgrade available.

Now seeing that the 14.1 update has screwed a load of webcam stuff used by remote workers.

I think I'm gonna keep my MBP on Ventura for now. My Mac mini server is on Sonoma, but all that's doing is hosting Linux VMs.

in reply to Miguel Arroz

@Miguel Arroz That sounds profoundly buggered indeed.

Touchwood I’m ok. The 6 days uptime is because of a power outage 6 days ago.

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Every so often I encounter someone who is very stridently advocating for understanding and sympathy for narcissists, to the point of sacrificing yourself to give them what they crave: supply.

And every time I smile, nod, and then instantly file them in the same mental drawer as “psychotic tiger in a bad mood”.

Never believe their bullshit, ever.

in reply to Llwynog

@Llwynog yeah. Once you’re wise to their shit, you can defend yourself.

But if you don’t understand, and they’re in a position of power over you, that’s when they can do profound damage. A lot of us who were raised by them evolve coping strategies, but when you’re a kid having to defend yourself against the person who is supposed to be nurturing you, it causes life long damage.

We also tend to be on high alert for them, constantly. If someone behaves in a way that triggers my narcissist response, it’s instant fight or flight, with a heavy dose of grey rocking.

This has actually served me quite well, but it’s a fucked up superpower to have.

in reply to Sarah Brown

the endless guilt-tripping is their most powerful tool. Covert Ns are really insidious because they present themselves as shy, introverted, morally superior and even sweet, initially. They're masters at mental gymnastics.

Playing the victim, endlessly talking about themselves and constantly complaining are my three N red flags.

Do you have any advice on how to detect (covert) Ns before they can do much harm? Any specific behaviours to watch out for?

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in reply to Llwynog

@Llwynog I’m not sure I can put it into words. There’s usually something “off” about them. Very self absorbed as you note, and feeling the need to constantly have someone or something ready to blame, even for stuff that doesn’t actually require it.
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When small things all align to make them the best / most hard done by person in the world. If it is a pattern then you can guess they are lying or just making stuff up to fit the narrative. For example Brenda said she wanted to move house when she retired because she didn’t know anyone in the village but my dad disagreed. Then he went into a care home but she couldn’t move house then because it would be too awful to abandon the friends in the village she’d known her whole life.
in reply to Alexandra Lanes

With her mild dementia these days, not even from one sentence to the next. It makes it very obvious.


Picked up an RPi 5 with the active cooler. Very shiny!


Person in front of me in the pharmacy: Have you got something for a deep, persistent cough?

So how’s your day going?

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I am in Britain!

It’s a lot like in an ink jet printer were a country.





British Library has no IT because of a compromise last week so they can only take cash for their Fantasy exhibition. (Possibly more critically for their core audience the catalogue is also down)

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#cambridge Guided busway claims more drivers who don’t notice signs. This car has lost one, maybe two tyres to the car trap. My question is, how are they rescued? Do ordinary rescue companies have vehicles that can get onto the guideway? Does the county council?

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in reply to Alexandra Lanes

I like the idea of a "Car Trap". Perhaps we should have more of them elsewhere.

Seriously though, why are they there?

We should have more guided busways and light railways on Beeching's closed railway lines. Hertford to Luton. Buntingford to Broxbourne.

Curious how they cope with single track sections.

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@Normal for '23 😷🇪🇺🍸 They’re there to stop cars going further on the busway, presumably so that they can be retrieved more easily than half way down a guided section. (This section is an anomaly because it’s not guided except at the entrances; the proper guided sections are narrow trenches.)

Wouldn’t recommend guided bus as a transport solution even if reusing closed railway alignments for transport is a good idea.

Single track sections are controlled by traffic lights.



So it seems there are still, despite increasing numbers of “leaders” involved in “crypto” ending up in prison for being con artists, true believers in NFTs (if you’ve forgotten about those, they were briefly bigger than COVID 19 and about as beneficial to humanity) held a party in Hong Kong last night.

The organisers thought they were lighting the stage with black lights (like they have at LaserQuest to make your clothes glow).

They were not.

They were lighting the stage with UV-C sterilisation lights.

Apparently everyone involved is now in accident and emergency with extensive sunburn and BURNS TO THEIR RETINAS!!

In 18 months there are going to be a bunch of people wearing dark sunglasses and refusing to meet outdoors trying to sell you something expensive to do with “AI”. You probably shouldn’t buy it.

bsky.app/profile/danaweb.dev/p…




@Mona app notifications from a friendica server seem to confuse Mona on iOS. They all appear as this.

You received a new message.
Error: error: The data couldn't be read because it isn't in the correct format.

in reply to Alexandra Lanes

ActivityPub is a server API not app API. Non-Mastodon servers need to support Mastodon API so they can communicate with Mastodon apps. Mona is compatible with servers that support Mastodon API. In this case, the Friendica server supports Mastodon API, but it appears that they got something wrong.
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Say if the Mastodon API requires that server provide a notification title and identifier to the app when delivering a notification, but Friendica provides nothing, then the app can’t display notification.
in reply to Alexandra Lanes

ActivityPub is a server-to-server protocol. No clients involved.


I see the Slack people looked at their product and decided that what it needed was to be utterly, profoundly, ugly.



Just tried to listen to the “new Beatles song” and had to stop within seconds because the digitally extracted voice was so uncanny valley that I literally felt like throwing up.
in reply to Sarah Brown

Like, there’s frequency components that should be there, even if distorted, but they’re just … missing.

60 seconds of that would give me a migraine.

in reply to Sarah Brown

it's not very good anyway. You can see why Lennon didn't complete it himself. It's a bit like those horrible records where they take Johnny Cash (for example) and add orchestral arrangements. Shudder.
in reply to Susan Lewis

@Susan Lewis Less than 30 seconds has left me on the edge of having to lie in a dark room in silence. No way am I able to listen to enough to make that determination.
in reply to Sarah Brown

I heard it earlier. You're not missing anything. The Beatles split about an album too late as it was, without this unnecessary barrel scraping.
in reply to Sarah Brown

I heard part of it and it just felt flat and empty anyways.

If someone (good) makes a cover I’ll listen again. Just to see how it is. Don’t expect it to exactly blow me away. I get it if a massive Beatles fan find it exciting, but for the rest of us it’s just a song amongst songs.



Ah, the glorious denizens of Reddit have definitively informed me that Tailscale, which implements a virtual network, privately, is “not a VPN”.

Apparently there is an entire generation of users who think a VPN is a personal porn tunnel.

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in reply to Sarah Brown

@Sarah Brown Theirs is a particularly weird definition to me because the VPN I first met was the Sinister Greenend VPN, which is a collection of nodes and works very much like Tailscale.


While I was out for a walk earlier my brain titled the TV hit series “Donaldson and Creece, Lesbians at Law”. Sadly it did not give me any further details.


Had a look at the Reddit crypto forums last night because who doesn't love a bit of schadenscrolling. They're still neck deep in Kool Aid, all going, "buy the dip! buy the dip!"

Guys, the people you are "buying" from keep going to prison for doing a runner to the Caribbean with the money. The only thing you are buying is new yachts for scammers.

READ THE ROOM. You have been conned. It's not nice to be conned, I get it. A guy once conned me out of 10 quid in front of Kings Cross Station in the 90s and I felt shit about that.

But you have been. Right now, you are throwing good money after bad. You aren't starting from where you were before you threw all your savings at these crooks. You are starting from now, and you are falling for the sunk cost fallacy.

You aren't getting your money back. Quit while you're behind. I'm sorry.

in reply to Sarah Brown

yeah putting in the channel would have helped....

youtu.be/5pYeoZaoWrA?si=rCrQbg…

This one. It's *bonkers*

in reply to Kincaid

@Kincaid More amused that anyone with a camera phone thinks they're a TV channel these days 😉


This is Uncleftish Beholding. If you haven’t read it and don’t know what it is, read it and see if you can figure out what’s going on! ling.upenn.edu/~beatrice/110/d…
in reply to xanna

what is fun is that I am surpisingly ignorant about [uncleftish beholding] and so when reading about it in any form it's always like learning not just reading, so despite being tired rn and unable to remember many of the words in English, I do feel like I learned something of the subject - familiar words are not necessary to advance the concept for me. The concepts, of course, exist regardless of our names for them and being able to learn from this demonstrates that beautifully.


I have something to say to those who said to us, when we told you that cryptocurrency was a tulip mania style bubble built on bluster, bullshit and suckers, that we didn’t understand and were just bitter about missing out. It is as follows:

HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA SILLY FUCKERS TOLD YOU SO.

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in reply to Sarah Brown

There is one good use for cryptocurrencies - crime.

Which is the only reason I can conceive of that Bitcoin has risen all this year. After we destroy most of our ecosystem, Bitcoin will be seen by the survivors as one of the many signs of the collective mental illness of our society.

in reply to Sarah Brown

I like it when Doctorow says,
If someone's paycheck depends on them not getting something,
Those folks are going to go out of their way not to understand it.


Had a power cut. Now all my DHCP leases renew in a two minute window. Annoying.


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Sarah Brown

@Jaq W Except if airport security want to open it, they'll just cut the clingfilm off.

If you have hold luggage, consider vac bagging your clothes instead.

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@Jaq__W I'm fairly sure I've seen it advertised in an airport, but long enough ago I can't remember details.




I just got trick or treaters in Portugal. I was not expecting that.


Dark arts mastery: Created a Linux x86 VM on my M1 Pro MacBook Pro

Within that Linux VM, created a docker container of Ubuntu with some personalised stuff.

On that container, built another one with the OpenWRT builder for RPi 4

Used that docker container to build a new OpenWRT image

Booted it on a spare RPi 4 and restored the backup of my OpenWRT config to it.

Took my actual OpenWRT router down, inserted the flash card I'd just created, and powered it back up.

Everything. Worked.

If you roll your own router, it's useful to know that you can recreate it were it to go tits-up, and I can!

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in reply to Sarah Brown

OpenWRT is useful (using it on two APs currently), but boy can networking and setting it up be an endless circle of confusion:(

Good luck!

in reply to Sarah Brown

Got a box for a router now, so it’s going to be pfSense or OpnSense for now. Hoping they will give me lots of good features.

But swapping over will be a bit of a nervous thing. But also why I need APs 😀

Also running on open software, because I don’t trust networking stuff anymore. Especially not the terrible ISPs:(

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friendica (DFRN) - Link to source
Sarah Brown

@Becky I'll also note that you can't bridge VMs on 2 different VLANs to the same physical ethernet port on UTM and if you try, neither will work.

I discovered this in the traditional manner.

(UTM on a different VLAN to the one the Mac is using natively is fine, this only applies to VMs)

Which is why my Mac Mini has TWO ethernet ports both connected now.



transphobic language discussion

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in reply to Sarah Brown

I hadn't heard that term before, had to look it up.
Ugh, so offensive and totally stupid. Presumably, it came from that redundant, failed binary ideology.

in reply to Sarah Brown

you know, when everything is heatpumps and FIR plates, the hauntings are gonna end...


Just watched the clock tick over from 01:59 to 01:00, as you do.
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Sarah Brown
@Becky Oh, is that when the US diverged from the EU? I keep thinking it was much more recently for some reason.
in reply to Sarah Brown

The international conspiracy to make you get up an hour earlier is over for the next few months.



“Open the pod bay doors, Hal.”

“I’m sorry, Dave; I can’t find anything like that in your Apple Music library.”




child sex abuse

Every single time this stone is turned over, the Catholic Church is up to the same kiddie fiddling shit. Every time.


Spanish clergy sexually abused more than 200,000 children: Report


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