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My battery performance is “significantly degraded” apparently 😀 In all seriousness though. 5 years of 24/7 on and lots of use is pretty impressive.

I haven’t made the leap to electric, bet it’s a whole new world to discover and stats and ways of doing things:)

(The reason is that I drive my car maybe 10 times a year, so, yeah. Not much use.)

I have often seen the question asked, “why are so many trans women so aggressive/combative”.

And the answer is that we don’t start out being, but we quickly learn that expecting people to be decent human beings towards us because it’s the right thing to do doesn’t work.

It only works if we make it harder to not treat us like human beings than vice versa.

I don’t feel like that’s on us to fix.

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Alternative hypothesis:

"Why are all these people who are hurting and sore from the wounds their life has given them so sensitive and quick to bark out in pain when poked in old wounds...?"

Because I see a lot of the same "aggression" from chronic pain people and minority groups and I think it comes from ....

Oh gods I'm just restating what you said. Sorry.

Rando: "Trans women are basically the same as men"

Trans women: "The fuck? That's incredibly transmisogynist!"

Others: "Shush dears, don't worry your little brains. You just didn't understand what he meant."

Like, can you actually believe this shit?

Appreciate I’m posting a lot about the latest drama, and the unexamined transmisogyny at the root of it, but I think we are at a bit of an inflection point now.

It appears that a lot of this singling out of trans women heavy instances has come from a few small servers that were heavily involved in the block list project, and mastodon.art, a large server that were it smaller, I suspect would be widely defederated.

As far as I can tell, most of the smaller servers are offline at this point, including Frontman-Mc-TechbRo’s own single user server.

No idea if this is temporary, or whether the tide has turned and enough people are now providing pushback to the “trans women are basically inclined towards naziism and that’s just how it is” bullshit they were spreading a few days ago.

I am hoping that we have turned a corner. Let’s see.

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The fediverse is utterly swimming in transphobia, particularly directed at trans women right now. People still defending a guy who outright says we are basically men and need treating as such as “not transphobic”, and getting pretty much no comeback for it.

And this is the least transphobic social media.

Is it any wonder so many of us are just balls of rage? What the hell is wrong with so many of you?

I see some of the trans mascs are now jumping on the “trans women are just being hysterical” bandwagon.

For those who haven’t experienced one of these clusterfucks before, this is entirely on brand for them. In my experience, lots of them are “men” before they’re “trans”, and not in a wholesome way.

I appreciate the realisation that nobody is helping us except us may be a difficult one to adjust to, but, ladies, chin up! Most of us are used to having to reevaluate who our friends are when we transitioned and this is just more of the same.

Onwards and upwards, and nil carborundum illegitimi!

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The more I see about this "Bad Space" thing, the more concerned I get. This is like that abortive united federation of instances thingy from last year that was run by the freeze peach crowd, only this one cloaks an apparent trans eliminationist agenda in the language of social justice. Apparently a lot of people find this superficially attractive.

If you are a trans-heavy instance, you might want to consider a fediblock of ubiqueros.com (AFAICS this is the "Bad Space" main instance) as necessary self defence. I am certainly going to.

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Wait, are you talking about The Bad Space project by Ro?

thebad.space/about

I thought that was basically a directory of fedi instances with crummy mod policies. I think I remember the "united federation" drama from last year too. The Bad Space seems more like a blacklist than a badly-contrived rules manifesto.

I've started seeing some posts floating around regarding some "Good Space" thing, but all I've heard so far is the name. If it stands in opposition to The Bad Space I can see how it would be problematic though.

I think I'm confused…

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@AcornSquashbuckler Some context for what's going on with The Bad Space and FSEP: hachyderm.io/@mekkaokereke/111…


OK, let's get into it. Let's talk about anti-Blackness on this here Fediverse, "civility traps", and "why nazis wear suits."

First: there are some trans folk that love Black people, care about our safety, and want to see the Fediverse be more welcoming to Black users.♥️ These kind folk volunteer considerable time, money, effort, and social capital, to make the Fediverse more welcoming for Black folk. We love them for this.

But there are some trans folk that are super fashy, and hate Black folk.


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@Ben Hutchings @Acorn Squashbuckler Relevant to this, have also seen posts complaining that trans women (particularly) only ever seem to be welcome in spaces as long as we present as resources to be used, and that the idea that we have a right to just fucking exist somewhere seems utterly alien.

And there’s a lot of that sort of tone in the post you just quoted, along with the “you’re either helping us build our widget or you’re with the Nazis” false dichotomy.

This is a thing we have seen time and time again. When I was in politics, we were only ever engaged with when people wanted us to lend legitimacy to whatever they were doing. It pretty much NEVER got reciprocated.

We are used to being thusly shat on, but it doesn’t mean we have to be fucking nice about it.

Oh, this just gets better. The HOA are proposing their "mysteriously blocks trans women wholesale" list into default Mastodon installs.

This would have the effect of completely isolating trans-run and trans populated servers from the rest of the fediverse.

I thought trans people had finally found a social media where we couldn't be subjected to a rug-pull. Turns out we absolutely can, and if they get their way, we will. Remove our ability to federate with anyone who isn't us and you basically wall us off inside a closed "bubble fediverse" which we can't see out of, and nobody else can see into.

Lovely

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Tl;dr: lots of small trans run instances and single user instances of mostly queer trans feminine people.

It’s important to maintain an open mind but not so open that your brains fall out. the “Bad Space” (might as well call it the “Torment Plexus”) is a tool for blocking trans women.

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@Charles ☭ H Ive defederated him now, but I have to say that the posts from him that I saw before that were very much not in the vein of “taking criticism and not making excuses”. Indeed, he came across as profoundly defensive, and much keener to attribute malign intentions to anyone highlighting issues than actually engage with what they were saying, save one post where he boosted his ally cred by saying he thought the word “girlcock” was fun.

Been vaguely aware of the latest Fedi drama. Been trying to ignore it, but it seems to have ended up at “trans people need to stop being so sensitive to people randomly assuming they’re disgusting perverts who the rest of society needs shielding from, it was a MISTAKE you guys”.

And that just makes me sad.

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@Charles ☭ H @cyborg I agree entirely. Meanwhile the censors are doing the whole “this navel gazing just distracts us from the real struggle” crap which has been the excuse for transphobia, homophobia and misogyny in liberation politics since the year dot.

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This is a bit concerning.

Basically, every few hundred years the earth is hit by a solar flare powerful enough to pretty much destroy all modern tech, and probably give anyone flying in a plane at the time cancer.

These are much bigger than the Carrington Event, which was the last really big solar flare recorded.

One day, without warning, the sun will just wipe out tech slate clean.

And there is apparently nothing we can do about it.


Link Post: The Carrington Event of 1859 Disrupted Telegraph Lines. A “Miyake Event” Would Be Far Worse daily.jstor.org/the-carrington…

A thing I was recently wondering. For most of the world's population, what is the largest island they can get to, other than the one they are currently on, using only fixed links (ie bridges, tunnels etc. No boats or aircraft).

And I think the answer is very straightforwardly, "Great Britain".

But if you start on Great Britain, then what is it? (I am not counting the land mass of Asia/Africa/Europe as an "island")

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Mass death

Watched a video about that fateful Air France Concorde flight. It took 121 seconds from the point they lit the afterburners to start rolling to the point everyone died. For most of that it was probably profoundly obvious to the flight crew that they were going to die: the plane had two engines out, their wing was on fire, they were on the verge of a stall, their landing gear was fucked, they could not gain speed or height, and the aircraft was becoming uncontrollable.

They HAD to know they were going to die, and yet right to the point their short flight ended impacting a hotel at 200 knots, inverted, with the plane yelling, “pull up, pull up, pull up”, they acted utterly professionally.

So impressive. So tragic.

It is with a heavy heart that I announce that the cis are at it again.


Pilot dies after plane crashes during gender reveal party in Mexico


Alan Francisco Rangel of the Sinaloa Red Cross told CNN that paramedics treated the pilot at the crash site in San Pedro, Navolato and then took him to a local hospital, where he died.



https://edition.cnn.com/2023/09/04/americas/mexico-gender-reveal-plane-crash-scli-intl/index.html

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I am in the showers at the marina (yes, TERFs, the women’s showers. Go fuck yourselves). They have the radio on. They are talking to a “psychotherapist” who explains how, because of the iron in your blood, you can get rid of “negative energy” by touching a radiator to “ground yourself” for 20 minutes a day.

Did the Enlightenment actually happen, or did I imagine it?

Dear Vodafone. That you managed to make registration for your site not work with the built in password manager for iPhones, one of the most popular mobile phones, is deeply unfortunate. It’s also an impressive achievement, because iCloud Keychain works nearly everywhere. You actually have to go out of your way to bugger it up.

But you, a mobile phone company, have managed to make your mobile site not work with this most common of mobile phones. I am impressed with the amount of effort it must have taken to be this incompetent.

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