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Tip for well-meaning people doing diversity monitoring: if your form expects trans women to, at any point, tick anything that says “male”, then that is profoundly offensive and most of us will just lie to you.

Please stop doing this.

in reply to Sarah Brown

i will also check female when the choices are ‘male’, ‘female’ and ‘trans’. Trans is not my gender!

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“The following programme contains strong and frequent language”

So, like, swearing really fast?

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in reply to Sarah Brown

The phrasing kind of implies that the frequent language and the strong language might be different instances.
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@Sarah Brown I always liked that when watching Scandi noir things. “This programme contains strong language” “What, Swedish?”



18 years ago today I socially transitioned. Fuck me, that's a long time!


There will come a time when the Raspberry Pi Foundation does not require a super secret mythical combination of USB C power supply and cable that is only dubiously complainant and can only be obtained on the third Thursday of the months with no R in them.

That time is not now.

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I am once again begging them to stop thinking they know better than the whole world when it comes to USB C power delivery. If Fred in his Wuhan shed can make shit that powers up without you feeling like you’re playing a game of fucking Myst, RPi with their impressive collection of computer science degrees and personal computer heritage should be able to.
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Given how they were told of by the AUTHOR of the power delivery portion of the spec because of what they did to the 4, you'd think they'd have made *some* effort on the 5.

But hey, this version has AI in it, so yay?

in reply to Sarah Brown

Meanwhile, my 2 and 3A trundle happily along with whatever random chargers for no-longer-supported phones were kicking around. Where did they go wrong?
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@sparrowsion interesting, as my 4 has a random PSU and is totes fine, but the 3A with a pi specced PSU undervolts All. The. Time...
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@Kincaid @Sion [main] The 4 cares about the cable more than it cares about the PSU. They also fixed it for later versions of the 4.


Today’s lesson. Most of the time when you ask “how do I do this?” and get the answer “don’t do this, do that” you’re talking to an irritating fuckwit. The lesson is that this is not all of the time.

The practical application of this was learning that digit is a very cool tool for editing Debian packages.

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Phrases that don’t mean what I thought they meant, part 33. The Global South.

Australia is in the Global North.



Me: installs a new Debian

Also me: nslookup something.or.other

Me again: "fucksake!"

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I now ask interview questions about frustrating replaced commands to anyone who says they have a history with Linux.

"Which netstat flags have been replaced with other commands?" tells on a person

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@mark I also remember when the cult of of the parrotfucker decided that manpages were "deprecated". That didn't last.
@mark
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lol, ya. Man pages were always still available on the web. Not sure how anyone thought those wouldn't be used


Pi5 is fussy about its USB cable in the opposite direction to a Pi4: older Pi4s, if you used a USB Superspeed cable then it wouldn't come up. Pi5: if you DON'T use a USB Superspeed cable, it gets all arsey about booting from USB.
in reply to Sarah Brown

so I’ve heard, 5V 5A right? not sure if any of my USB-PD chargers even support that particular configuration
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@joshie 🏳️‍🌈 I have mine on an Apple iPad PSU which does 5V/4A which it seems to like: the magic "I'm not going to be a twat about USB" flag comes on anyway.


Incels be like: Cattle have all the power. They have a monopoly on beef and milk.

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Playing with the new telescope and trying to get focus and tracking working better. Not huge success, but this is at least pretty.


I am trapped on a train full of drunk footballists. Very very stressed.
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many years ago when smoking was still allowed on trains in the UK, I was in a carriage when a large group of fairly well lubricate lads came in. One was smoking and one of the others said loudly "you can't fucking smoke in here, it's a fucking no smoking carriage". They all duly left...



Was in Waterloo station just before 11 (waiting for a train). The police were there in force, looking very nervous. I think the fash (who, it turns out, were busy fighting the plod on Whitehall) may have overplayed their hand.
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Interesting that the old bill were having to pay more attention to the rw bozos who were attacking them.🤦‍♂️ Hopefully, the big march went peacefully.


Gold loos: not only are they tacky as fuck; they would be really cold on your arse.

Maybe that’s why Trump is such a miserable fucker.

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@earthquake

At first I thought fracking, but almost all fracking in Poland is east or north of there. ...Maybe something top secret blew up underground?



The wave seems to finally be breaking, thank fuck!


Repeatedly, the trajectory of anti-trans politics is an immediate spike in panic / support, followed by a sharp decline.

As "parents' rights" panic collapses in the US, Canadian conservatives are setting themselves up for a losing battle. #cdnpoli

Anti-trans platforms lose elections - LGBTQ Nation
lgbtqnation.com/2023/11/anti-t…


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@mercedesallen And there will be no consequences for the suffering they caused. At a minimum there should be public, permanent oppo files on these monsters.
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@mercedesallen I’m sort of hoping this - the whole counterrevolution against any process made since the 60s - is all an extinction spike, like the anti abortion referendum in Ireland in the 1980s.

Not confident, but hopeful.



What is it about despicable people and obnoxious comparisons? TERFs love their “at least the Taliban know what a woman is” and now Douglas Murray is writing in the Jewish Chronicle that “at least the Nazis felt bad about killing people”...



I appear to be developing a TP-Link Jetstream Switch habit.

They’re good switches though.



Which philistine decided to call it MOCA and not 1000BASE2?
in reply to Sarah Brown

@Sarah Brown I want home networking with vampire taps. (Not really but I am sad I missed that era of networking)


Tesco were so preoccupied with the fact that they COULD, they never stopped to wonder whether they SHOULD.

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Increasingly getting the impression that MacOS Sonoma is a lemon, and best avoided.

Interestingly, when it bricked my M1 Pro MBP, and I had to recover from the recovery partition, it reinstalled Ventura.

And the new Macs ship with Ventura, with no Sonoma upgrade available.

Now seeing that the 14.1 update has screwed a load of webcam stuff used by remote workers.

I think I'm gonna keep my MBP on Ventura for now. My Mac mini server is on Sonoma, but all that's doing is hosting Linux VMs.

in reply to Miguel Arroz

@Miguel Arroz That sounds profoundly buggered indeed.

Touchwood I’m ok. The 6 days uptime is because of a power outage 6 days ago.

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Every so often I encounter someone who is very stridently advocating for understanding and sympathy for narcissists, to the point of sacrificing yourself to give them what they crave: supply.

And every time I smile, nod, and then instantly file them in the same mental drawer as “psychotic tiger in a bad mood”.

Never believe their bullshit, ever.

in reply to Llwynog

@Llwynog yeah. Once you’re wise to their shit, you can defend yourself.

But if you don’t understand, and they’re in a position of power over you, that’s when they can do profound damage. A lot of us who were raised by them evolve coping strategies, but when you’re a kid having to defend yourself against the person who is supposed to be nurturing you, it causes life long damage.

We also tend to be on high alert for them, constantly. If someone behaves in a way that triggers my narcissist response, it’s instant fight or flight, with a heavy dose of grey rocking.

This has actually served me quite well, but it’s a fucked up superpower to have.

in reply to Sarah Brown

the endless guilt-tripping is their most powerful tool. Covert Ns are really insidious because they present themselves as shy, introverted, morally superior and even sweet, initially. They're masters at mental gymnastics.

Playing the victim, endlessly talking about themselves and constantly complaining are my three N red flags.

Do you have any advice on how to detect (covert) Ns before they can do much harm? Any specific behaviours to watch out for?

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@Llwynog I’m not sure I can put it into words. There’s usually something “off” about them. Very self absorbed as you note, and feeling the need to constantly have someone or something ready to blame, even for stuff that doesn’t actually require it.
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When small things all align to make them the best / most hard done by person in the world. If it is a pattern then you can guess they are lying or just making stuff up to fit the narrative. For example Brenda said she wanted to move house when she retired because she didn’t know anyone in the village but my dad disagreed. Then he went into a care home but she couldn’t move house then because it would be too awful to abandon the friends in the village she’d known her whole life.
in reply to Alexandra Lanes

With her mild dementia these days, not even from one sentence to the next. It makes it very obvious.


Picked up an RPi 5 with the active cooler. Very shiny!


Person in front of me in the pharmacy: Have you got something for a deep, persistent cough?

So how’s your day going?

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I am in Britain!

It’s a lot like in an ink jet printer were a country.





British Library has no IT because of a compromise last week so they can only take cash for their Fantasy exhibition. (Possibly more critically for their core audience the catalogue is also down)

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#cambridge Guided busway claims more drivers who don’t notice signs. This car has lost one, maybe two tyres to the car trap. My question is, how are they rescued? Do ordinary rescue companies have vehicles that can get onto the guideway? Does the county council?

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in reply to Alexandra Lanes

I like the idea of a "Car Trap". Perhaps we should have more of them elsewhere.

Seriously though, why are they there?

We should have more guided busways and light railways on Beeching's closed railway lines. Hertford to Luton. Buntingford to Broxbourne.

Curious how they cope with single track sections.

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@Normal for '23 😷🇪🇺🍸 They’re there to stop cars going further on the busway, presumably so that they can be retrieved more easily than half way down a guided section. (This section is an anomaly because it’s not guided except at the entrances; the proper guided sections are narrow trenches.)

Wouldn’t recommend guided bus as a transport solution even if reusing closed railway alignments for transport is a good idea.

Single track sections are controlled by traffic lights.



So it seems there are still, despite increasing numbers of “leaders” involved in “crypto” ending up in prison for being con artists, true believers in NFTs (if you’ve forgotten about those, they were briefly bigger than COVID 19 and about as beneficial to humanity) held a party in Hong Kong last night.

The organisers thought they were lighting the stage with black lights (like they have at LaserQuest to make your clothes glow).

They were not.

They were lighting the stage with UV-C sterilisation lights.

Apparently everyone involved is now in accident and emergency with extensive sunburn and BURNS TO THEIR RETINAS!!

In 18 months there are going to be a bunch of people wearing dark sunglasses and refusing to meet outdoors trying to sell you something expensive to do with “AI”. You probably shouldn’t buy it.

bsky.app/profile/danaweb.dev/p…

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@Mona app notifications from a friendica server seem to confuse Mona on iOS. They all appear as this.

You received a new message.
Error: error: The data couldn't be read because it isn't in the correct format.

in reply to Alexandra Lanes

ActivityPub is a server API not app API. Non-Mastodon servers need to support Mastodon API so they can communicate with Mastodon apps. Mona is compatible with servers that support Mastodon API. In this case, the Friendica server supports Mastodon API, but it appears that they got something wrong.
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Say if the Mastodon API requires that server provide a notification title and identifier to the app when delivering a notification, but Friendica provides nothing, then the app can’t display notification.
in reply to Alexandra Lanes

ActivityPub is a server-to-server protocol. No clients involved.


I see the Slack people looked at their product and decided that what it needed was to be utterly, profoundly, ugly.



Just tried to listen to the “new Beatles song” and had to stop within seconds because the digitally extracted voice was so uncanny valley that I literally felt like throwing up.
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Like, there’s frequency components that should be there, even if distorted, but they’re just … missing.

60 seconds of that would give me a migraine.

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it's not very good anyway. You can see why Lennon didn't complete it himself. It's a bit like those horrible records where they take Johnny Cash (for example) and add orchestral arrangements. Shudder.
in reply to Susan Lewis

@Susan Lewis Less than 30 seconds has left me on the edge of having to lie in a dark room in silence. No way am I able to listen to enough to make that determination.
in reply to Sarah Brown

I heard it earlier. You're not missing anything. The Beatles split about an album too late as it was, without this unnecessary barrel scraping.
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I heard part of it and it just felt flat and empty anyways.

If someone (good) makes a cover I’ll listen again. Just to see how it is. Don’t expect it to exactly blow me away. I get it if a massive Beatles fan find it exciting, but for the rest of us it’s just a song amongst songs.



Ah, the glorious denizens of Reddit have definitively informed me that Tailscale, which implements a virtual network, privately, is “not a VPN”.

Apparently there is an entire generation of users who think a VPN is a personal porn tunnel.

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@Sarah Brown Theirs is a particularly weird definition to me because the VPN I first met was the Sinister Greenend VPN, which is a collection of nodes and works very much like Tailscale.


While I was out for a walk earlier my brain titled the TV hit series “Donaldson and Creece, Lesbians at Law”. Sadly it did not give me any further details.