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Just had a motorbike burning something in front. Caused the worst asthma attack I’d had in years. One of those “ventolin just saved my life” ones.

Apparently I went an interesting colour.

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Ian Molton

From the safety sheet for 2 stroke oil.



Apropos of another conversation, if progressive/left wing people got our ideal world, we would be happy.

if the hard right got their ideal world, they'd be miserable as fuck, because their worldview is centred around constant outrage at the state of the world and having an "out group" to rant about.

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Didn't play out that way in the 20th Century fascist states.
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I don’t think the majority of them would be miserable in a sensible socialist ideal world, as the goal isn’t to make one group miserable but rather make everyone happy.

That’s the difference for me, anyone who needs to make others miserable to feel joy are terrible people who shouldn’t be in charge of anything anywhere.


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@Alisdair Calder McGregor Removing the block feature from twitter. Thing is, with no ability to control trolls in their mentions, the left wing "prey" will leave the website, leaving only the right wing "predators", who will get pissed off because there's nobody to hunt for sport any more.


So, big SUP session on the Stort two days ago. And now, I’m, er, “detoxing”.

As it were.

Oops




Practice, practice, practice, get wet, practice...

And the pivot turn starts to look almost competent!

in reply to Susan Lewis

@Susan Lewis I think post apocalyptic is just how England looks these days
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Look on the bright side, you appear to have the skills to at least last until the rats get into you food cache!

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Very sad. Look at all the great things to come out of Granada: Corronation Street, University Challenge, World In Action...


Very little help

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Sarah Brown
@Ian Smith I saw the S had been obscured and inspiration struck.


A few years ago, Cambridge City Council became the first of many local authorities in the UK to start dismantling its trans equality policy. Here, today, they are flying the progress pride flag from their offices.

Hypocritical bullshitters. We see you.

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@Paul100 Thing is, discriminating against someone based on who they are: not acceptable.

Discriminating against someone for behaving like an arsehole: completely acceptable.

I am a business owner as it happens, and if someone is transphobic to me, they will be told to take their custom elsewhere.

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Sarah Brown

@Paul100 One is based on identity, one is based on behaviour.

They are not the same.


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Selfie
I admit to wanting one myself but I think my partner would file for divorce if I did and we don't really have the space for it.
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Kacey
Have you seen my meme group?


A curious thing about Britain in 2023 is that the trunk road network is increasingly subject to a curfew after 9pm.
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Yes. An amazing amount of night-closures these days. When it's seven, eight-ish, I'm egging myself on as I pass the cone lorries.

There's some terrible places for endless diversions through back lanes -- round Rutland is the worst.



Huh. The council phoned up to ask me some questions and send me a £10 Amazon voucher.


Me: “The Tailscale net access thingy is a front end to masquerading.”

@Zoë O'Connell ”Masquerade! Paper faces on parade!”

Me: “That is a shit musical.”

Zoe, offended: “Why?”

Me: “It has two good songs and no story.”

Zoe: “Hang on, which musical is it?”

Me: “Phantom”

Zoe: “Oh, yes, you’re right. It is a shit musical.”



Wanted: microwave that has controls that aren’t basically an escape room.

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For “posh” microwaves, I’ve found Panasonic to be more straightforward than most.


The endless glamour of yachting! Time to sip the forbidden milkshake (yes, there is a good reason, and yes, it has to be a plastic straw)
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@Veronica🏳️‍⚧️ :inanna: There is a rubber gland where the propeller shaft goes through the hull. It’s lubricated by sea water, but needs a millilitre of grease inserting once a year to keep it watertight. This can only be done when the boat is dry docked.

The seal between the gland and the shaft is very narrow, so a plastic drinking straw, which can slip between the two, and then squeeze the grease in, is the ideal way to get it in. If you try with paper, the straw explodes from the pressure.

I’ve heard it can be done with a hypodermic needle too.



The worst thing about going all explodey mopey on social media is feeling a bit of a fraud when you don’t feel quite so bad.
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If you're at all being triggered by external events, then its going to come in waves.

The question is, do you feel that you were being fraudulently mopey, or that the feeling not so bad is a fraud? Hint: it's neither.

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@Sion [main] External events are a factor but my reaction to them is way over the top or even exists at all because of the depression. I think the feeling is that I was somehow exaggerating how bad it felt (I wasn’t) to get attention, and now one of guilt for having alarmed or alerted friends now that 48 hours later I’m a bit ok again. And also a sort of fear that everyone will go away again.

Similar feeling regarding my therapist. She’s offered an emergency appointment rather than waiting until September but it doesn’t feel like an emergency today. Saturday evening it definitely did.

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I think the potential for emergencies almost certainly counts as an emergency. It's a bit like standing on a plank and it wobbles, I think. If you try again and it doesn't wobble the next time it doesn't mean that it's okay to put all your weight on it, or that it's not worth investigating it as a priority, or that it was silly to alert people to it!
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Having been there: just because it's stopped being an emergency now, doesn't mean it's not going to be again before the next time you can see your therapist. Or that next time it's going to go away so quickly. There's no such thing as a false alarm in this sphere, just that sometimes it takes a *lot* of work to figure out what the root cause is.

Have long post brewing about feeling guilty about alarming friends and family, particularly those who understand. Just do it. Some of us are going to be in a place to listen, some aren't, and if we're all honest and transparent about this then those that aren't should just be able to back away from the moment without anyone's guilt, and be there another time.



Mental health


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How does one "do" friendica. I don't particularly want to post things, but being able to comment would be good, if that's a friendica thing?
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@kæt I don’t understand. You literally did just comment on a friendica post?
@kæt
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Oh, I see. It's two-way from mastodon is it? The friendica post content is presented to me here as a link. But unlike RSS, if I comment on mastodon, the replies are federated to friendica?

I was confused, expecting either the content and replies to both be embedded within my mastodon client or else neither.

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@kæt It’s two-way, yes. Or rather, they’re both activitypub servers so use the same protocol to exchange messages. Dunno why the content might just be a link though. Sorry.
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@chiffchaff The confusion may be that a Friendica post has (can have) title and content, and when it gets federated to Mastodon all we see is the title and a link back to the full post on its server. But you can just reply to that stub here and it gets federated back as a comment.
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I just want all TERFs who hate read me to know that earlier this week, I used a communal changing room. I was naked. There were other women in there. Nobody gave a shit.

Please do feel free to seethe, though.

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Since Brexit, the lack of a proper trade agreement means I will have to pay import VAT on my little sailboat when I take her to France.

I asked on a UK boating forum for some recommendations for a tax advisor to assist with the process. The overwhelming answer was, “just do tax evasion. You probably won’t get caught”.

This may provide an insight into the mindset of British exceptionalism.

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[sigh] I am suggesting avoidance, which is absolutely legal.
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@wrack Except a few months ago there was a story in the local press where they impounded and boat and fined the owner for exactly this sort of pissing about with shell companies.

Please, I’m begging you, read the room.




I wonder whether the Pavilion B Common Room at DAMTP is buzzing with talk of all this! mastodon.social/@Dtl/110858637…


Interesting! Newtonian Gravity seems to break down at very very low accelerations - perhaps the end of dark matter models for the universe?

phys.org/news/2023-08-smoking-…






Internet forums do my head in sometimes.

“Hi, I want to do A. I will need help with this. Does anyone have recommendations for someone who can provide these professional services?”

“Don’t do A. Do B instead”

“Thanks, but B does not interest me. I’m looking for someone to help me do A”

“You could do C”

“It’s my understanding that C will get me arrested for tax evasion, which is why I need someone to help me do A”

“Ok, have you tried B?”

ARGH!

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I'm often on the other side of the xy problem where someone shows up wanting to do the tax evasion...



The polycule iMessage group. @Sylvia Knight asks if we want anything from the shops.

Me, typing in teensy keyboard on Apple Watch: milk

Eggs

Bleach

@Zoe O'Connell, next to me: “you can actually type stuff on your watch?”

Me: “almost”

Zoe: “huh?”

Me: “look at your phone…”

Phone: new message from Sarah: “Earl Greg”

#EarlGreg

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Stopped at an M&S food place on the way back from working on the boat yesterday. Very knackered and verging on hypoglycaemic, and the only fizzy drinks they had in were sugar feee ones.

And I’m like, cut the moralising, you pricks. Sometimes you really fucking need sugar.

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@Becky is not a bear I discovered the hard way that it knows exactly what to do with sucralose an’all.


Most adorbz thing I've seen in weeks!

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Burning a candle here for Trump to spend the rest of his life in ADX Florence.

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house arrest in Mar-a-lago sounds more likely, if even that
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I don’t wish the American penal system on anyone but oh boy am I tempted to make an exception for him
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I assume he'll get pardoned the moment there's a republican president.
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gosh. This is such a sad story. And all too common. Sad to hear about her decline over the last decade.



The bit of middle age where you fall asleep on the sofa because you’re too tired to get up and then randomly awake fully clothed feeling like arse at 2am … hate that.


The TERF, in whose head I live rent free, hasn’t done any stupid shit that I’m aware of for HOURS, and there’s nowt on the telly. #bored
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OK That made me giggle out loud.

Actually I need a new mattress... But unlike those grifting .....s I will buy my own.

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TERFs and bedbugs: One is very fond of mattresses and sucks the life out of their victims, living a life of obligate parasitism.

The other is an insect.

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By the way, I know you're reading this because you can't help yourself, so I have a message just for you, Ms H, and I know you're reading it from my profile, so the formatting will be preserved. I have a message for you:

TOUCH
SOME
GRASS
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Sarah Brown
@Sapere Aude Who am I that I should raise discourse level?


Interesting question just came up re driving in the UK on Reddit. Someone wants to go from the M11 to the A3 and asks which way round the M25 they should go. These roads are pretty much equidistant regardless of whether you go clockwise or anti-clockwise round London.

That’s the route we take to Scarlet, so I have opinions on this. Go clockwise from the M11 and you encounter the Dartford crossing. This is a toll crossing, and is often very congested.

Go anti-clockwise and you pass the Heathrow section.

For me, there is no contest. Pay the damn toll. It may be annoying to have to put up with the Dartford crossing, but the Heathrow section of the M25 is the very arsehole of hell and to be avoided at all costs.

Interestingly, most commentators felt the same.

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Did anyone suggest going straight through? Doesn't the A3 technically go across London Bridge?
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@Charlotte Benton Straight through will have you gibbering and worshiping Cthulhu by the time you come out the other side.


This post is addressing a specific TERF. I’m pretty sure she hate-reads me, and I think it’s important to note that, and I want to be very clear on this:

I still think you’re akin to a bedbug or a pubic louse.

You come at the queen or her friends, you better not miss, asshole.

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Me: Why they pointing a gun at him? They don’t need to point a gun at him! He’s in the bin!

@Sylvia Knight: It’s America!

Me: Good point. Pointing a gun at people is just how they say “hello” there.

bbc.co.uk/news/av/world-us-can…

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@Sarah Brown @Sylvia Knight I assume most Americans aren’t terrified by this state of affairs and would think it’s us who are weird for not waving lethal weaponry about.
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Sarah Brown

@RocheLimit @Sylvia Knight @Viking Chieftain "I physically cannot."

"Stop resisting!" BANG BANG BANG



Smirks in "smug climber/sailor"

My coiled cables uncoil straight, so there.

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I see your smirky sailor, and raise you a smirky stageworker / theater lighting tech.

It's definitely one of those skills when you see someone doing it wrong it's a hard fight not to fling yourself across the room and tackle them "NO NO NO NO NO! WRONG WRONG WRONG! GIMME THAT"

#adhd #detail #cable #cabling #nerdskills