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Five years ago, the East Of England Liberal Democrats posted a photo of two transgender women, me and @Zoë O'Connell, wearing “Bollocks to Brexit” T-Shirts.

It is a sign of how far UK politics has fallen that that is utterly unthinkable now. Both the total erasure of transgender people’s existence and acceptance of Brexit are utter orthodoxy across the political spectrum there now.

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Something that's not as important as the hatred, but seems incredibly weird to me, is how it's suddenly become important for politicians. Doesn't that seem really weird? Compared to like the 90s and 00s. That this is suddenly so important for non-trans people who have no real contact with trans-people other than them being a part of the population. I mean, what's going on in their head that it's suddenly important for them? If it's because of social media /éminences grise/, why is it important to *them*? It just seems bizarre. I mean I suppose I *understand* it, but it's always like *so, that's a thing*.


People always point to ghouls like Musk when they say that money can’t buy happiness.

Counterpoint: Enya. She made a load of money. She bought an actual castle. She retired to said castle to become a reclusive cat lady.

Inspirational!

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The people that say "money can't buy happiness" always have some stupid hobby that makes them sad instead of happy.
People with creative hobbies get happier with more money they have.
I have a dozens of things i want to do that i can't because i don't have money.

Elon bought a social media because people made fun of him there.

Mark spends his time stalking millions of people and running psyops with CIA.

Bill Gates is testing how awful a OS can be before people stop using it.

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@void Bill Gates has been running that experiment since the 80s and, it turns out, he hasn’t come close to bottoming out yet.
@void



Apparently this beach is accessed only by sea.

WRONG

Free soloed the bigger, down and up.

Because I can.

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@Ghost of Hope our limestone is a bit chossy, but it’s usable if you know where to go.


Just stopped at a motorway services for a coffee. You know the place; sells petrol.

The bin was on fire.

At the place that sells petrol.

A couple of women just sitting next to it, watching the bin be on fire.

I went and told someone. The bin is no longer on fire.

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Today's new word is "zemiotics" which is apparently the study of social harm and loss, though this is unknown to the Oxford English Dictionary.

supervisorconnect.med.monash.e…



Money talks

But it can’t sing and dance

And it can’t walk

As long as I can have you here with me

I’d much rather be

REVEREND BLUEJEANS!

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Fellow ADHD types: I have found vegetable cheat mode. Before you boil them, chuck a shitload of MSG in the water.

Downside: I have now run out of vegetables and need to eat my own lips.

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Update: really used too much.

Can you eat desks? Asking for a me.



I think the "1936 Olympics" vibe was maybe putting people off a bit. theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/a…
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But without the novelty of being the first Olympics to be televised.



Me, in southern Portugal: you seen that Spain and Morocco are contemplating a rail tunnel?

@Zoë O'Connell, also in southern Portugal: But they won’t build a rail line to here? WHY EVEN IS SPAIN?

Me: That would be HARD, Zoe. They’d have to build a rail line over at least THREE KILOMETRES of line across land nobody lives on and construct a bridge of about TWO HUNDRED METRES.

So difficult.

timeout.com/news/there-could-b…

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Spanish railways were originally built to six (Castilian) feet. Portuguese ones to five (Portuguese) feet. These are, however, only 8mm different - Portugal being 1664mm, Spain 1672mm.

When the two networks joined up (1880s), they agreed a compromise "Iberian" gauge of 1668mm, and gradually all track was switch to that, which was officially completed in 1955.

So yeah, they already fixed *that* problem 70 years go.


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Possible UK aurora tonight!


There is a decent chance of seeing the #aurora tonight, over a huge chunk of Northern Europe (perhaps as far south as Switzerland) - space.com/solar-storm-coronal-… - the sun is having a major geomagnetic event. #space #science



900 metres up the Algarve's tallest mountain in the middle of the night. Shockingly dark!

Worth it, though.

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Marcos Dione

lenses need that extra, post infinity 'reach' to do the autofocusing. Not sure if any of them actually have the infinity properly marked; none of the few ones I have/had had it. My current one has something that doesn't feel very accurate. Looking at manual focus lenses, they implement a similar cursor, but most seem to have the extra info of FoD, which make hyper focusing easier.

I use a similar technique to what @goatsarah explained. I mostly use Jupiter.

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whenever Vanuatu is mentioned I always think of IHP and feel grateful to the nation of Vanuatu for helping me through the first months of my transition while the gatekeepers were keeping gate


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@BashStKid @Sarah Brown She has very little control over the colleges as they're all independent institutions. I think there are separate protests directed at Trinity; with my vaguely-associated-with-Maths hat on I gather various Trinity maths open days have been subject to protests.
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@BashStKid I think the attitude of individual colleges is most likely to be dictated by their fellowship. I don’t know what King’s fellowship is like and how likely they are to put pressure though.
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Watching a bit of the snooker final. I had forgotten just how infuriating a commentator John Virgo is.
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I was so glad they switched away from him after the interval!


Prone to doomscrolling the hours of insomnia away on Reddit because whatever.

Anyway, it seems heterosexual women getting all divorcy because their partners still wank is a thing.

And I’m like, “wow, your relationships are so very not like ours”.

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I remember this topic coming up at my university (mixed) halls of residence, and one of the guys turning to one of the girls and saying “Emma, guys wank.”

One of the most concisely truthful bits of education I’ve ever seen. 😂

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@Sarah Brown Imagine a succession of "er, what, eh, uh" noises. Do they somehow think their husbands are having affairs with themselves or something?


As someone with some unwanted experience in this, the answer is “no”.

Just trust me here.


Would you want to spend a week as someone of the opposite sex? Why/Why not?

#CriticalQuestions #Quiz #PubQuiz #StayHome #StaySafe #StayHomeStaySafe

youtu.be/TF17t9ph_RE


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@RGB @Critical Cupcake I know there are cis people who tried this for “an experiment” and had to stop because they had a nervous breakdown.



The results are in for the English and Welsh council elections, and the shitbag Tories have come third.

HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!

Maybe spend less time obsessing about where we pee, eh guys?

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I am delighted and relieved but I daren't hope it'll improve nationally cos Labour is only "less bad" not necessarily any good.

My area did ditch our Tory mayor tho, the one who has been distancing himself from the parliamentary party while also being the life partner of Michael Fabricant which Makes No Sense At All Cos He's A Scary Loon.



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incidentally, this is why many activists (or faketivists) don't like fedi: they need to forcefully push their message and they can't. And one can have opposite opinions depending on whether they consider the message to be good or evil. I, for one, value this property of the fediverse very much.


#ukpol #transphobia Why does anyone still think the Guardian is a progressive newspaper? Their latest fun is an “exposé” of being able to buy HRT on the internet.

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Hey Tories! While you’re coming third in your elections, I’m in ur country, being trans with intent to use a public toilet 🖕🏻

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So that Jurassic Park, a creature-feature starring Tyrannosaurus Rex and Velociraptor, is named after a period that occurred over seventy million years before those animals evolved.

I am unreasonably annoyed by this.

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So there’s a thing about these right wing Americanists who want to force women back into “traditional gender roles” that I don’t get: they come from the bit of America where the music is all about women in traditional gender roles, trapped in an abusive marriage, murdering their husbands.

READ THE ROOM, GUYS.

Or drink coffee with arsenic in it. Your choice.

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Goodbye, Earl.
(Srsly though here in the US this would more typically end with Earl murdering Wanda & probably Maryanne, too, if she lived in easy driving distance.)
youtu.be/bqnrXRuebWg


Dear god. I thought we left bullshit like “debate me bro!” in response to safety warnings to marginalised communities behind on fucking Twitter.

Apparently not. No, you do not get debated. You get blocked and fucking purged from the server.



Useful into for UK trans feminine people

Pharmacies in Portugal (verified) and Spain (unverified) will often sell oestrogen HRT over the counter to tourists without a prescription. If you watch Ryanair prices, you could day trip there for £50 or less.

This will likely be cheaper and potentially safer than using an internet pharmacy.

2mg estradiol is readily available in pill form.

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@StuffByBez @jen To my understanding this is mostly if you use overly high doses, which is sadly kinda common because medical professionals are idiots and often don’t take into account that E is an anti-androgen and prescribe full 50mg pills.


IMPORTANT - PLEASE SHARE

The linked document is being circulated amongst NHS service providers for young trans people. It advises cessation of ALL medical intervention for transition but goes further. It suggests that if the patient or parents continue to access trans healthcare outside their system, they should be reported to social services with the implicit threat that the children will be taken from their parents.

IF YOU ARE A YOUNG TRANS PERSON OR A PARENT OF ONE, IT IS LIKELY UNSAFE TO ENGAGE WITH NHS MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES.

docs.google.com/document/d/1JS…

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@Ghost of Hope @Rachel Greenham @Charlie Stross @C++ Guy I’m one of the lucky ones who got in under the Article 50 wire. That route has closed now though.
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@grayface_ghost @StrangeNoises @cstross You're giving the British public more credit than they deserve,don't forget these are the people that gave the albino orang utan and 80 odd seat majority to do with as he wished to which he started wrecking the country. Mags happened on both sides of the Atlantic ocean we've gotta make sure it doesn't happen on this side again.

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@sesquipedality I did vote for a police commissioner this time, though often I spoil the ballot. I've been less worried since it became clear they do nothing at all. But I should get back into the habit of spoiling.

I probably shouldn't have been told this, so I won't name names, but I've heard some hilarious Police Commissioner spoils from counters, from people venting about the police and their conduct to votes for Inspectors Morse, Frost, and Clouseau: it's a bit of an art-form, apparently, particularly for that particular post.



I have arrived on the rock known as Poundland. WHERE IS THE NEAREST BIOLOGICAL FEMALES TOILET ASSHOLES? I WISH TO DESECRATE IT WITH MY TRANS PISS

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After your unholy piss and exiting that place, I hope you have a better day.
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AS ARMAS, OS MEUS CARALHOS! CONTRA OS BRETÕES, URINAR!

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Since apparently some of my friends are unaware, these are the things that are bothering me and other UK trans people:
theguardian.com/society/2024/a… - the UK government’s latest transphobic shit. 1/3

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#ukpol #transphobia thetimes.co.uk/article/rosie-d… - the leader of the opposition agreeing with the government’s plans and backing his leading transphobic backbencher 2/3

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#ukpol #transphobia rcgp.org.uk/representing-you/p… - GPs’ representative body calling for end to shared care with the private sector, and restricting their role in other aspects of trans healthcare. 3/3

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TERF bullshit, but it’s funny, in a pathetic way

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If there's a UK trans person in your life, check on them.

They probably aren't OK right now.

Seriously

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it's been hard. I've got friends who are definitely struggling right now.
Things seem very uncertain is probably the nicest way to say "it's probably going to be more of the same after the election"


I am constantly amazed at how thin the skins of TERFs are. They would not last 5 minutes as a trans woman.