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I have, for some time, been coming to the conclusion that I probably have ADHD.

And my god, the “resources” online are just so very very terrible.

They’re all basically, “have you tried not being that way?”

Er, yeah?

in reply to Sarah Brown

That's good. Crises suck. I read ADHD 2.0 and it helped me understand a bit of what was going on. I also expect that each person's path is different, and what works for one doesn't necessarily work for another.
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Sarah Brown

@Ghost of Hope further to this. Last night I tried a strong cup of coffee at 10pm (never done this before). Quickly felt sleepy.

Went to bed.

Just woke up.

GOT UP.

Why did I get up? I never do that? I lay in bed until my bladder makes me.

Weird




David Tennant, of Dr Who fame, apparently said some pro trans things and now the TERFs are going after him on Twitter. His response is that he isn't worried because, and I quote, "I'll be fine, Terfs can't climb stairs"

I want that on a T-shirt. No, I NEED that on a T-shirt!

ETA: Apparently it was a parody account that said the stairs line. I still want it on a T-shirt.

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in reply to Sarah Brown

Am having trouble so far finding an explanation/breakdown of what "terfs can't climb stairs" means exactly.

Am not posting this looking for enlightenment specifically. Though it would be nice & appreciated, of course.

in reply to Sarah Brown

Tennant didn’t say the line, but he is pretty awesome on trans issues. The whole thing exploded because of a t-shirt he was wearing. In addition, he’s been wearing a nonbinary pride pin to all his public appearances for some time, apparently in support of one of his kids.


IBS, medical

Weird thing last night. Yesterday afternoon, I did an advocated SUP lesson and the instructor really got me working my core muscles.

Then in the evening win the way back, we stopped at Pizza Express at Cobham services on the M25. I was prepared to spend the rest of the trip back in pain, because I pretty much always get abdominal pain after eating a meal.

But it didn't hurt. I felt full, but without pain, and this is a vanishingly rare experience for me. Eating = pain. It's always been like that, and I basically expect it.

Except not last night.

Meanwhile this morning, I have massive stiffness in my abdominal muscles.

Kinds feels like too much to be mere coincidence.

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IBS, medical
abdominal muscle tone is really important for digestion. Possibly more important for some people than for others but even babies need abs supported for some parts of digestion because they are jelly, and lots of people use belts or hold cushions etc.
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IBS, medical

That’s an interesting observation. I have mild IBS as part of the bundle of fun that is fibromyalgia, and tai chi seems to have lessened the severity of it.

Whilst tai chi is very core-focused, it wouldn’t be anywhere near as high impact as your SUP session.



Apple: We have discovered a zero day which was actively exploited in Safari!

Me: Downloads software update.

Facebook:

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On the other side of it, who wants to bet the simplified version of FB sucks a lot less than their regular mobile web UI?

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the Serenity Prayer got me through a time when I badly needed to change jobs but it took me a while to find the right opening.

As an atheist, I endorse the Serenity Prayer. #atheism #wellbeing



Presumably his mum will veto the knob measuring contest as well?

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British aircraft carrier heading out to sea from Portsmouth. It’s huge, and the engines are making a bass throbbing sound that’s penetrating my skull from a few hundred metres away. Hope shit isn’t kicking off.

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Musing on the number of men with high profile careers getting brought low by sex scandals.

I'm wondering if some of them, the ones who value their career, might consider castration? Used to be a lot more popular for high powered career gentlemen, but has fallen out of fashion of late.

Honestly, as a satisfied customer, I rate it very highly.

Just saying.

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@pseudomonas "Popular" might be the wrong word. "Useful" perhaps. Various points in Ottoman, Byzantine, Chinese, and Persian history, for starters. Being a eunuch means you're not a direct threat to the imperial throne, therefore you have leeway to accumulate a lot of power.
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Fosstodon has not hidden my profile. What am I doing wrong? I’ve told the orca fans to fuck off loads. Surely that should have done it?
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Sarah Brown
@tiddy roosevelt If the orcas used computers, they would absolutely be using Windows, and they’d be using it to “ironically” post Nazi memes on Threads.
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3rd day living on the boat. Now embracing the “smelling suspect and looking like a scarecrow” vibe.
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Sarah Brown
@Saxicola ✅ @Dr David Mills Gotta clean yourself up if you use a bucket. Sea takes away and cleans. Problems solved.



Dear Wightlink Ferry helms: just because a sailing boat is almost certainly going to get out of your way if you make like you’re going to ram it, doesn’t mean you should.

Wankers.

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@Alexandra Lanes You know how much damage we’d do to one if it ran us down?

None.

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@ajlanes Got confused because I was still on jellyfish. Must close some tabs.
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The word "Wightlink" wandered around Sarah's mind lin search of something to connect with. Fifteen seconds later she was out of the quarterberth and lying in the Solent in front of a small ferry.

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Felt like a nice day for a swim in the Solent. Found a jellyfish in the traditional manner. It’s not comfortable.

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@Lorraine Lee Yeah, the local town Facebook group has been full of pictures of them this week.
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Sarah Brown
@Lorraine Lee Right, but I was swimming in the Solent.


Me, appearing to 1980s me:

So, in the future, computers will be really popular. However, you will be having to get software from the “Git Hub”, there are Nazis everywhere, and the Russians will be trying to destroy society using something called “Threads”.

Oh, but you’ll finally be able to solve a Rubik’s cube in under a minute.

1980s me: Um, why do you have tits?


As a Brit the name "GitHub" will never stop being amusing to me. (Git being British slang for a nasty, unpleasant person, generally a man.) So I'm like "GitHub? Sounds like some pubs I know, amirite?"



I do not enjoy going up there, but sometimes it has to be done.

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Passed a thousand followers. Crikey! Hope you’re all being nice to my little Mac that’s running this instance.


This is a 50p that was minted to celebrate the UK joining what became the EU. It was minted in my birth year, and my mum gave it to me shortly before she died of cancer in 2021. It is one of my most treasured possessions.

It has 12 hands linked in a circle to symbolise the then 12 countries of the European Community. One of them is smaller, representing the hand of Queen Elizabeth II.

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Sarah Brown
@Kris Being stupid is like being dead: the subject doesn’t realise, and it mainly causes problems for those around them.
@Kris


You guys! Trans women who’ve transitioned recently have never heard of COGIATI!

Oh, we have such sights to show them!



Ken did a transphobia apologism on Bsky. Ken doubled down. Ken then complained about it on fedi and presumably thought his day wasn’t going to get any worse.

Then fedora-in-human-form, Jeff, defended him in public.

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FeralRobots

@yassie_j
There's not a lot more pathetic than dude simping for someone (e.g. Eugen) who would probably be embarrassed by his attention.

@anarchosynthism @warrioroflatte @goatsarah

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ah so THAT's what it was about.
I think I remember Ken from Metafilter back in the day & if I'm remembering the right guy, he got into lots of fights where he was clearly framing himself as the noble advocate for frank speech.
I find his legal perspective valuable so I grin & bear the nonsense [though had not prev seen the transphobia apologia, which might change things]; that said he is far too settled in his own sense of righteousness for my taste.


Zuck is a POS, but he’s pulled a blinder. His ridiculous metaverse fell through, but literally just cloning Twitter and feasting on its carcass.

Threads will likely kill Twitter and Bluesky, and then when it starts federating, the fediverse will schism into instances that tolerate the worst people in the world federating with it and the ones that won’t.

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pretty sure mendeddrum will be "nuking the site from orbit" once Threads starts linking
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I almost forgot about the existence of the very much hyped metaverse. On a scale from 1 to NFTs, where would we put that? 🙃

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!Transcontinental Ragnarok @Zoë O'Connell I solved the federation problem.

@Sylvia Knight I have created a group for Transcontinental Ragnarok. You can join by following it.


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GTiven that from my perspective, it's just a post from you - I'm not sure if it's a forum post or a post or a note or what 😀
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@Roy Greenhilt Hmm, that’s annoying.

But private forums don’t seem to work with activitypub

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So i take the friendica thing is basically acting like a forwarder - Post to it, it boosts to the followers.

Close! Is a group actually private? IE, do boosts to the followers only show up to the people it boosts to? That would be helpful.

The 'group' tag helps to note this is a forwarder, but would love more information on who it is, what it is, how it is, and how do I get on or off it?

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@Roy Greenhilt It was initially a private group, but it seems they only propagate to Friendica.

Groups are still kinda Facebook’s killer app, and the fediverse kinda sucks at them.

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!Friendica Support Hi all. I created a forum user (closed signup) to try the feature out. It seems to work fine directly via Friendica, but stuff posted to it isn't federating to the couple of Mastodon accounts I used to sign up to it with. It's happy to accept posts from those accounts, and responses federate back to Mastodon, but the Mastodon accounts aren't seeing other posts sent to the forum.

Viewing the profile for the forum on mastodon.social shows no activity.

Any idea what I'm doing wrong here?

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@Michael Vogel I deleted the delegation, but now I can only access it via direct login. It seems to have become completely unlinked from this account.
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@Michael Vogel oh well. It’s federating now. Thanks for your help 😊


The Twitter TERFs are having a meltdown. I have no inside info, but if it’s what I think it is, something excellent is about to happen. Get the popcorn ready.
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Ok, that actually went moderately well for them (they kept their charity status but possibly on a technicality, so maybe more action to come). For now they’re safe. Dunno why they were so upset.
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exactly - they should be happy, for now.
Legal is always a long game and getting refused on the basis of a technicality is okay for us because it means the basic argument had merit.
Now they just need to figure out the right approach
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@Rachel Lawson Maybe they wanted something definitive, but are pissed off because this is now likely to go higher?

They have the establishment on their side. If I were them, I'd be taking the win, but whatevs.



Fedi: I preblocked threads before it was popular!

Bsky: See me throot! Throot throot throot!

Twitter: 404



Just seen someone complaining that their wifi is only giving them 650 megabits. What a time to be alive!

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Oh, I meant the line into the house. We top out at 200 mb. We live between two small towns and didn’t have access prior to installation but through our phones.
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@Dan Oh, right. This was specifically about his wifi speed, not his internet connection. He was complaining that his WLAN was maxing out at 650 megs.


They’re are, apparently, people, terrible terrible wrong people, who do not realise that November Rain is Guns ‘n Roses best song.

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Though I agree that WTTJ isn't their best song, it probably is the best opening track to an album ever written, which understandably confuses people.

But the song from them that goes round my head the most is Dust and Bones.

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The "payment reference field" for my Portuguese bank does not allow accented characters.

Oh ... kay

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fiche.

I was is an Expat in Setúbal in the early 80s. At the time you could only take about $100 out of the country.

I took a suitcase full of 1,000 Escudos bills to Heathrow for exchange to dollars on the trip back to America for Christmas vacation in 81.



My fediverse server is hosted in the EU (specifically, in my Ikea TV cabinet), and learning that Facebook’s new thing is so egregiously invasive that it can’t satisfy EU privacy regulations makes me confident that preemptively blocking it was not only sensible, but almost required.

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despair, climate, nazis

The world is going to burn from climate change while Nazis run amok trashing what's left of our dying civilisation not because there's nothing we can do to stop it, but because the people who are in a position to be able to stop either are all too fucking thick to do so.

I need a fucking drink.

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despair, climate, nazis
@Goth'n'Bass Saúde!
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despair, climate, nazis
Let's just hope that in a hundred million years time, when the crabs work out why the geological boundary corresponding to a particular mass extinction event is filled with fragments of plastic, they resolve not to make the same mistakes.


Watched the first three eps of ATV+ Hijack thing, constantly yelling, “WHY ISN’T HE SQUARKING 7500?!?” at the screen.


Watching the Amazon delivery driver repeatedly drive past the end of my street for the last 5 hours like.
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in reply to Sarah Brown

Will someone who uses the Threads app who follows my Calckey posts get all this information from me, or just my posts which are available on the web interface anyway?
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@packy @Mona app They will not. This is stuff that your phone is sending to Facebook's servers if you have a Threads account.
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Sorry, that's just the flavor of all the posts I'm seeing. They feel less like "see what information those poor Meta users are giving up" and more like "look what Meta will take from you if we allow federation".

That's probably just projection on my part.

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@vaughnsc If Threads is federated with your instance, they will see everything the rest of us see about you. But no one really knows right now all the details on if/when that happens, or how they plan to implement ActivityPub.


All hail the arrival of Threads, perhaps the most unfortunately named and most pre-blocked social media platform ever, at least until Elon decides to launch a fediverse platform and name it “Syphilis” or something
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GNU Too
and if they weren't, we'd still have Diaspora*


Hey, CNN, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it’s just possible that there is prior art here… edition.cnn.com/2023/06/30/tra…
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exactly. Also have you heard of rotor ships? Those are really weird


Alright. I’m behind the curve. What server to I block to defederate the Facebook thing named after the film about a nuclear apocalypse?
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FWIW, came across this enormous blocklist of facebonk domains/IPs; no idea if necessary/useful to block these as well as the threads dot net front door (seems like it'd be Sisyphean)
mastodon.moule.world/@MOULE/11…
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@WOMUMP Yeah. I don’t see the point in blocking subsidiary stuff if the actual site itself is defederated.



Velociraptor would like to speak to, and disembowel the manager, please.

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@Nephatrine You were so preoccupied with whether you could, you didn't stop to think if you should!
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It's true. I stood on the shoulders of geniuses to accomplish something as fast (and lazily) as I could, and before I even knew what I had, I tooted it.
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@Nephatrine We can make it it we run.

No. We can’t.

Why not?

Because it’s emailed corporate.

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paying homage to the movie that made them trending before trending was even a thing


Musk, Twitter

I think I understand his advertising strategy. Create a site full of techno libertarian fanboys who are not anywhere near as clever as they think they are, but who are demonstrably willing to throw money at any old crap if they think Ayn Rand would have approved, and then present it to unscrupulous con artists, wanting to sell scams like NFTs or bitcoin or whatever, as a captive audience of gullible losers who will buy any old crap as long as it “owns the libs”.

He may not be doing this on purpose, but scammers will absolutely see the value in an audience of a few million gullible right wing arseholes who won’t complain about terrible service and who have money to burn.

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Yeah...it's a narcissist Dunning-Kruger Fanclub you need to pay membership fees for to be able to read the teachings of your Guru
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@Sebastian :verified: He’s very good at business! He must be worth backing to the hilt!

I’m sure we’ve seen this before somewhere, but I can’t quite place it …

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Is he tho....?! Or did he make enough money with selling PayPal to employ people who are good at business related things? I don't really know the answer to that, but his Tesla track record, especially with "Full-Self-Driving" isn't really that of a savvy business man.

Or maybe I'd just like to think he's a babbling potato, because I really don't like him... 🤷‍♂️

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Musk, Twitter
as soon as NFTs have moved to a low-carbon mechanism, I should start working out how to rip off such people.