My wife drinks black tea all day long (somewhere between 2-3 liters) and when she measures her blood pressure, she's "barely alive". I have at least one device that is flat out unable to measure her when her blood pressure is really low.
Honestly, it's one of the small things that make me wonder if she's really neurotypical or rather "one of us".
@Dog Noise Generator I don't know if this has caused POTS symptoms or merely unmasked an underlying condition, but everyone in my immediate circle on this stuff now has "standing up after taking amphetamine" as an extreme sport!
I only get the Long Release stuff, sadly. I don't think they give the quick stuff out in the UK, but my experience of non-prescribed amphetamines was pretty positive (listened to some music, went to bed).
oh Amfexa is new to me! I'm on 36 & 18 Methylphenidate Hydrochloride LRs. They work fine, I guess - I sleep, I forget to eat, I've mostly stopped picking my face raw 🤷
I couldn't sleep more than 6 hours on the stuff. It made my heart race constantly, like 90bpm, for years. Just gave me a feeling of always being on edge. And mild overdose produces extremely painful urination, so there's that. Amphetamine is pretty awful as far as drugs go.
Can't comment on how much I looked like a vacuum cleaner salesman.
In today’s episode of “Insights From Alpha Methylphenethylamine”, comes the realisation of how two ADHDers communicating, especially if they like each other, will dance around the usually unspoken elephant in the room, RSD, in a way that usually never specifically acknowledges it.
If they don’t like each other, it may get weaponised. This is the ADHD equivalent of “mean girls” behaviour.
Researchers use neurotypical volunteers to calibrate MRI machines across sites and remove the machine-introduced noise. Suddenly structural differences in ADHD brains, which were being masked by the noise, become clearer to see. newatlas.com/adhd-autism/adhd-…
A new study significantly strengthens the case that attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder brains are structurally unique, thanks to a new scanning technique known as traveling-subject method. It isn't down to new technology – but better use of it.
It is quite a problem to calibrate the physical responses of the different machines to a common standard, and then calibrate all the inversion software to produce consistent results.
be careful with your assumptions. So far the history of MRI studies linked to psychology or personality, is littered with greater diversity within the class of interest or controls, than the mean difference. Whilst reducing the noise will reduce the in group diversity, hence increase the 'significance' of any parameter difference, the categorisation of people by an MRI remains unwise, it certainly should not be used for diagnosis. Humans are nonergodic, hence diagnose the person!
Ha, fascinating question! I'll read the answers with interest. As an ADD haver myself, the vibe is: we get along like a house on fire, while my bf wonders how we keep track of all the asides, tangents, and digressions 😀
I was halfway through an answer in my head when I noticed that you asked for a neurotypical perspective. Very interesting, indeed. But sadly I'm neurodivergent.
But I can tell you from the last hacker congress I attended this year (Gulaschprogammiernacht): When we realize that we are all the same, we stop masking. I had so many interesting chats with other people talking over each other, always switching topics while literally vibrating, waving hands, constantly moving and no eye contact. And it was relaxing! I told one girl who was on the AuDHD spectrum and first she looked like a brick is smashing though a window and then she asked if she can hug me and said "Yes, you are right, I'm having symptoms but I'm fine with it and it relaxes me not to constantly wonder what the neurotypics think, because there are none here!" 😅
The only person I _know_ has ADHD is sensitive, empathetic, caring, clever, creative, lovely, sometimes overly self-criticising, can be emotional and messy in their thinking, in situations where a cooler head would be more useful to themself. Doesn't manage stress well. They is very verbal and can argue that every possibility, individually, is impossible, thus systematically closing every door. But when opportunity knocks, they can OTOH be very flexible and open to it.
Only in hindsight! I've had several friends who, after I've heard that they've been diagnosed, I've gone "oooohh; yeah, that tracks."
So insofar as there are vibes, they're usually subtle enough that they're not usually a "tell" by themselves.
You ever have that experience where somebody tells you something about themselves that you didn't know, and suddenly about 5% of the conversations you've ever had with them get re-contextualised and feel more... authentic? It's like that.
At least from my (neurotypical, probably?) perspective.
I want to explain a few things and then it might be clearer why UK trans people are upset.
In 2001 I married my wife, Sylvia.
In 2005 I started medical transition. For the state to recognise this I had to submit to standards of "care" which were humiliating, degrading and which placed me at risk of violence.
But I did it "by the book"
As I did it "by the book", the NHS agreed to reregister me as female, which makes sense because my anatomy now is.
In 2007 I had sex reassignment surgery. This had to be signed off by two mental health professionals, "by the book", and it was.
In 2008 I applied for gender recognition. This involved signing a statutory obligation, stating that I promised, BY LAW, to live fully as female for the rest of my life. As this was done, "by the book", the government promised that it would treat me as such.
Its first act as treating me as female was to annul our marriage because it was a same sex marriage and those were not allowed.
The state then reissued my birth certificate, correcting the "mistake" it had ori
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I want to explain a few things and then it might be clearer why UK trans people are upset.
In 2001 I married my wife, Sylvia.
In 2005 I started medical transition. For the state to recognise this I had to submit to standards of "care" which were humiliating, degrading and which placed me at risk of violence.
But I did it "by the book"
As I did it "by the book", the NHS agreed to reregister me as female, which makes sense because my anatomy now is.
In 2007 I had sex reassignment surgery. This had to be signed off by two mental health professionals, "by the book", and it was.
In 2008 I applied for gender recognition. This involved signing a statutory obligation, stating that I promised, BY LAW, to live fully as female for the rest of my life. As this was done, "by the book", the government promised that it would treat me as such.
Its first act as treating me as female was to annul our marriage because it was a same sex marriage and those were not allowed.
The state then reissued my birth certificate, correcting the "mistake" it had originally made when it recorded me as male, "by the book".
In 2009 Sylvia and I married for the second time, in a same sex civil partnership, which was done "by the book", because the state regarded me as female and I was bound by law to be female.
In 2013 we married again, because the state decided that same sex marriage was in fact allowed after all. This was done, "by the book". Despite having been married for 12 years, we had to submit ourselves to individual questioning to prove our relationship was genuine, "by the book".
In April of 2025 the state turned round and told me that I had been mistaken. That it never regarded me as female. That I was male the whole time. That the marriage it annulled because it was a same sex marriage was never a same sex marriage (but it stays annulled). That the civil partnership in 2009 never really happened because "opposite sex" civil partnerships were not allowed in 2009.
And that the legal obligation I have to live as female for the rest of my life, which I signed and gave up my marriage for, is still in effect but also if I keep following it, I am breaking the law and subject to arrest. As it's still valid, presumably if I don't keep following it, I am also breaking the law and subject to arrest.
The law of the land simultaneously requires me to be both a man and a woman and if I do either then I am breaking the law and subject to arrest.
At every stage I did what the state asked me to, even though it was humiliating, degrading and cruel.
And it kept moving the goalposts, and reneging on the agreements it made, whilst continuing to hold me to them even when they are now mutually contradictory.
Apparently this is "all my fault" and I should have known that this would be the consequences of my actions when I started medical transition 2 decades ago.
on the other hand though, support from Scottish Government to end conversion practices. And some nice discussion on why, which makes it harder for other governments to ignore. gov.scot/publications/scottish…
A Scottish Government response to the consultation analysis on ending conversion practices Scotland. This document responds to some of the issues raised in responses to the consultation and what the Scottish Government is doing now.
@musingmouse That's likely a factory, but it also seems that bureaucrats who used to go to Eton, or who aspire to having gone there, just enjoy making up arcane conflicting rules for cruelty's sake.
@riley i think if you put yourself in the mindset that anyone who is poor it is their fault, because they did not choose to be born rich . And then you can justify any policy you want for
Shit yes!! You're absolutely right! I always found that strange and thought there might be an appropriate amount of time you are allowed to hold eye contact. After that both have to look away and everything is allright. They probably teach the length in neurotypical school which explains why I never learned it. 😅
@Heather 👻 nah. They’re busy sinking shit in Galicia for the next couple of months. East Biscay is currently safe from them. It is not, however, safe from Extra Tropical Storm Erin.
Because deaf or mute people famously cannot communicate or socialise?
Socialisation is more than words. For autists like us as well. It's just a sense we're missing, like sight or hearing.
It's part of why I started studying linguistics. I get to learn the academic description of how all that works, which rules and patterns nonverbal communication follows, and where exactly I am missing out on understanding it.
Them: You know, you should maintain eye contact instead of looking away. Me: Ok. [ Acquiring target ] [ Target locked ] [ Tracking target... ] [ Staaaare zzzZZZZ... ] Them: NOT LIKE THAT! ASFHGKLJ;DWAUGH
Last year Zoe and I commenced operation “Oui Oui Baguette” to move our boat, Scarlet, from Gosport to La Rochelle in France. This was interrupted by a small engine fire which left us stranded in the Brittany port of Quiberon over winter to make repairs.
Anyway, we moved the boat to La Rochelle a month ago. Today we commence “Operation Churro”. We plan to leave La Rochelle shortly and in a single leg of 36-40 hours in the Bay of Biscay arrive at Hendaye on the French/Spanish border.
The orcas were attacking boats in this area about a month ago but since then seem to have moved west and are now heading south from Galicia to Lisboa so we should be safe from them (fingers crossed). Weather looks ok. We will probably be motoring for the first part with the hope we can sail from later today.
We have 100 litres of diesel on hand, 170 litres of fresh water, a fresh butane cylinder for cooking, and a bunch of fresh food ingredients in the fridge. Our crew is me, @Zoë O'Connell and @Jessica Smith 🏳️🌈
safe travels! If you see a 43 footer called the Steno give it a wave. It's the one I do a bunch of repairs on from time to time and it's in the area now.
At some point in the last 4 months since starting ADHD meds the state I regard as normal has swapped over.
I’m currently in the post medicated state and I feel like some confused scared shadow of a person terrified of her own emotions which she doesn’t understand and bemused by the world.
Oh I get it now, thanks. Post-medicated as in, the part of each day when the meds wear off—not the part of your life after you started taking the meds.
So I’m awake after 3 hours of sleep, again, and my thoughts are going at a zillion kph, again, but one of the ones I can grab onto is “the problem here is that we don’t get medicated at night and so my brain will do this and that’s probably why my sleep is so utterly crappy and I wonder if there’s stuff about this on the Internet”.
(Yes, that was a single sentence. Trust me, I am slowing TF down to even get it to that state)
So I grab my phone and search for “ADHD stimulants racing thoughts sleep” and one of the first things that comes up is this: simplypsychology.org/adhd-raci…
And I want to say lots of things about this. Which one to start with?
Ok, firstly whilst this has a bit about “what you can try if this is you”, it’s clearly not written FOR us because it’s written in that very neurotypical style. You know the one: “90 percent of this article could have
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So I’m awake after 3 hours of sleep, again, and my thoughts are going at a zillion kph, again, but one of the ones I can grab onto is “the problem here is that we don’t get medicated at night and so my brain will do this and that’s probably why my sleep is so utterly crappy and I wonder if there’s stuff about this on the Internet”.
(Yes, that was a single sentence. Trust me, I am slowing TF down to even get it to that state)
So I grab my phone and search for “ADHD stimulants racing thoughts sleep” and one of the first things that comes up is this: simplypsychology.org/adhd-raci…
And I want to say lots of things about this. Which one to start with?
Ok, firstly whilst this has a bit about “what you can try if this is you”, it’s clearly not written FOR us because it’s written in that very neurotypical style. You know the one: “90 percent of this article could have been not labouring the point and getting on with it and will you bloody chaos goblins PLEASE stop interrupting?”
Secondly, there’s a lot of stuff on the Internet of this type that ends up being “have you tried NOT having ADHD?” which this isn’t, at least for some people because I recognise the strategies it talks about, eg mindfulness, journaling, grounding, creating a routine, etc as stuff that some of my friends do, and they DO help.
But thirdly and finally, it still feels like that for me because pretty much everything it suggests is stuff I just can’t bloody do.
And I’m NOT being oppositional defiant or stubborn or wilfully obstructive here. I promise, I have tried this stuff, and most if not all of it I just can’t bloody do (except, maybe I’m literally doing one of the things now, ironically, maybe. Will come back to that).
Let’s look at the suggestions, and this is specifically about SLEEP, so the ones that are “just take the goddam speed” don’t apply here. I take the goddam speed in the daytime and that stops them and I quite often nap as a result, because I’m fucking exhausted (that’s literally the thought that started this cascade).
I’m gonna group a few: mindfulness and grounding, acknowledge and let go.
I have had people get intensely frustrated with me because they insist, pretty much to the point of yelling at me sometimes, that I should be trying these things. It seems some people can do them and they work, so perhaps a lot of that evangelism comes from a place of kindness and the subsequent frustration comes from what is seen as my stubborn dismissal.
I get that. I really do.
But I have TRIED to do all this stuff and here’s the issue; it all relies on me interrupting myself to do the shit it’s suggesting, and having the attention span and willpower to keep doing that.
And for me that interruption induces monotropic split; that stressful adrenal surge when pulled out of hyperfocus, except this time I’m doing it to myself.
And so there I am, having just caused monotropic split, literally fight or flighting myself, and now you want me to “concentrate on my breathing”, or some shit?
Yeah, cool story bro. The fucking LOOK I’m giving you, yes, you know the one, do I need to go on? I don’t? Excellent.
Sleep hygiene. SLEEEEEEEEEP HYGEINE. Well. What’s that? Develop a routine? Limit screen time before bed? Be slow and methodical and self disciplined at the point the stimulants are wearing off and gather all your executive function to act like you can actually have a rigid routine that you stick to, day after day, or at least most of them.
Trying that relies on the novelty trigger. And I suspect it will get so old so fast that it might get tried once. Or half a time. Or not at all. Look at all the pretty fucking squirrels.
I do not do routine. I can just about manage “take your lisdexamphetamine with breakfast to make it work better and rescue you from chaos goblin mode” most days.
Most
Yeah. No. Not doing that shit. Not happening. That’s AAAAAAAAAAAALL the way into “have you tried not having ADHD?” territory and actually, I have tried not having ADHD, sort of. It actually rules but it also relies on me doing that thing I’m not supposed to do: take speed in the middle of the night.
Do you do, like, maybe benzodiazepines? Yeah, I know, they stop working. Melatonin has never actually done shit when I’ve tried it. Maybe i seriously need to investigate finding someone who will let me try amphetamine and SNRI (atomoxetine) combination therapy? That might work.
Sorry. Squirreled there. My bad.
Physical exercise and movement. I’m in bed. I have needed to piss for the last 90 minutes and yet I have not pissed. Point made? Good.
Reframe. Ok, these are mostly not “I wonder why we have ten toes?” Thoughts. Ok. Some of them are. Squirrel. Most of them are actually “given the state of the world let’s dwell on the actually not implausible scenarios in which I could die quite horribly and quite soon”.
Not thanking my brain for those. Not imagining them in a silly voice. Just mostly being actually shit scared of them.
Time blocking: doesn’t apply. I’m in bed. Also stuff that’s “time management” coded falls into the category of “things that caused my worst burnouts in the half century I had no fucking help for any of this” and so there trauma-coded. That sucks.
Healthy distractions:journaling. Used to be quite the blogger but burned out. More recently I tried using the iPhone’s journaling app for a bit. Made lovely journal entries. Novelty trigger wore off. Phone reminding me to journal my day served as a repeating monument to failure. I deleted the app.
But here I am. I wrote this. It’s probably full of typos. I wrote it on my phone. Might cone back and tidy it up later. Probably won’t.
Suspect this is a once only thing. Also it took me well over an hour and it’s now half past eight and I still need to piss, and I still need to sleep.
Might be able to manage the first one at least. Finally.
Imagine your mind is like a web browser with dozens of tabs open, all playing videos or music at the same time. For many people with ADHD, this is what everyday thinking feels like.
I've struggled with insomnia my whole life. I've found paediatric records that say this "she has a history of sleep disturbance and slept 5 hours the night before" The only thing that kinda works for me when the thoughts start racing on bad stressful things is telling myself this isn't the time/place for those thoughts, it's time to sleep, think of something else. Like, anything. Elephants? It's a little more peaceful and eventually I go unconscious.
@Heather 👻 I can sort of manage a thing sometimes where I steer the thoughts into complete abstract nonsense that sort of folds in on itself because it becomes so weird I can’t work out what I’m actually thinking about.
Mostly that just jolts me into a rebooted thought train, but sometimes I can fall immediately asleep if it hits just right.
See ADHD minds are so different and complex that NT people diagnosing and treating ND people can never understand.
I've gotten to the point where I want to punch anyone offering help. I've basically accepted I'm helpless in this matter, please also accept it (and me).
Also thank you, I've now Uno Reverse myself as I was starting to fall asleep but need to be awake a little while longer to unload the washing machine so I will now rage about medical trauma that is usually what keeps me up at night 🙃
Hi! This post forced me to log in to Mastodon and reply when I did it so thank you ig. I don't have any advice except "idk sleep will come when it comes". Right now it's apparently important we are awake and seeing all the fucking shit that's going on, sigh
My own related experience: have ADHD and a sleep disorder (Delayed Sleep Phase Syndrome, DSPS). Researched sleep stuff because of DSPS before I knew I had ADHD. Melatonin can work a little, but only by making you more tired. Also everyone takes it wrong. Common formulations are inconsistent in dose so you need to buy higher quality, and your body also produces less at night, you should take a very small dose (like less than 1 mg) several hours before bed. Only works if you're consistent, so bad for ADHD, but the timing is actually pretty close to the end of daily lisdexamphetamine dose so maybe possible. Other sleep meds can work for non dsps, but come with all their own risks and have limited long term effectiveness with increasing downsides generally.
My personal most effective experiences have been crashing on energy after the speed runs out, which only works if I consistently take the speed which is bad because forgetting and also taking it too often is bad for my body.
Last point, there are types of meditation besides mindfulness meditation, which I find more effe
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My own related experience: have ADHD and a sleep disorder (Delayed Sleep Phase Syndrome, DSPS). Researched sleep stuff because of DSPS before I knew I had ADHD. Melatonin can work a little, but only by making you more tired. Also everyone takes it wrong. Common formulations are inconsistent in dose so you need to buy higher quality, and your body also produces less at night, you should take a very small dose (like less than 1 mg) several hours before bed. Only works if you're consistent, so bad for ADHD, but the timing is actually pretty close to the end of daily lisdexamphetamine dose so maybe possible. Other sleep meds can work for non dsps, but come with all their own risks and have limited long term effectiveness with increasing downsides generally.
My personal most effective experiences have been crashing on energy after the speed runs out, which only works if I consistently take the speed which is bad because forgetting and also taking it too often is bad for my body.
Last point, there are types of meditation besides mindfulness meditation, which I find more effective, but I can't explain what I'm doing because I'm not well versed in meditation terminology. Also like you I generally don't remember to start in the first place so it rarely helps.
@Valdus With some more exploration, timing the stimulants to run out just before bed, IF I then actually go to bed. Too long and not only do I lose the executive function to go to bed, the racing thoughts start up and keep me awake.
However, there's a nice little cheat mode to get round this that I've discovered, which I like to call, "a bedtime double espresso"
I feel like iPhone MagSafe has so much unrealised potential for carrying … stuff. Like I want a little pouch in which I can keep smell essentials. A sort of keyring plus.
I’m having a custom corset made because I’m worth it. Went for the fit test of the mockup today (the final thing is a sumptuous red with black lace detail).
Anyway, she’s gonna take it in another 2-3cm at the waist and give me more push up in the bust.
Ah yea of course but the boning lines and shape overall I kinda meant looks similar to my wedding corset. It'll look cooler when its all colours and lace!
I saw the medication news and I'm really happy it's working for you! Me? I don't know how up you are on things ooop North.... I could talk about my wonderful partner @psotle , our travels and adventures, finding a job that feels *right*, we had a second cat for a few months... I'll settle for life is good, I'm in a good place and really exciting adventure to come later this year ☺️
Breakfast of champions (if your champion happens to be a chaos goblin). Clockwise from left: blood pressure monitor, cereal, water, protein yoghurt, lisdexamfetamine 50mg.
I've suspected I'm perimeno for maybe 18 months now but no real sleep disturbances. So probably will never be believed 🫠 Obviously everyone has hot flashes. Feeling off and irregular is just the birth control hormones, yup, doesn't matter that my pattern on this birth control has been the same for the previous 9 years and is now wildly different. "It's just stress"
I’ve been struggling with my HRT levels for a while after finding out I was effectively menopausal earlier this year. I noticed this by my FSH being high. Since then I switched from pills to gel and it got me back into the non menopausal range, but only just.
I know this because I’ve been having regular blood tests. My metabolism is quite fast and clears stuff from my system quickly, so the longer release of gel (it builds a reservoir in the fat) works for me.
Anyway, since starting lisdexamfetamine for ADHD, I’ve checked my FSH using urine tests and it got a lot lower still. I figured it was somehow calming down my liver and letting the oestrogen last longer in the body.
Got a new blood test result yesterday. FSH is now MUCH lower, which is good.
But it’s not from oestrogen.
It’s from TESTOSTERONE!
Elvanse seems to have kicked my adrenal glands up a notch. I guess this makes sense. It is a stimulant. It’s taken my T from the very bottom of the female range to the middle of it. Impressive, given I have no ovar
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I’ve been struggling with my HRT levels for a while after finding out I was effectively menopausal earlier this year. I noticed this by my FSH being high. Since then I switched from pills to gel and it got me back into the non menopausal range, but only just.
I know this because I’ve been having regular blood tests. My metabolism is quite fast and clears stuff from my system quickly, so the longer release of gel (it builds a reservoir in the fat) works for me.
Anyway, since starting lisdexamfetamine for ADHD, I’ve checked my FSH using urine tests and it got a lot lower still. I figured it was somehow calming down my liver and letting the oestrogen last longer in the body.
Got a new blood test result yesterday. FSH is now MUCH lower, which is good.
But it’s not from oestrogen.
It’s from TESTOSTERONE!
Elvanse seems to have kicked my adrenal glands up a notch. I guess this makes sense. It is a stimulant. It’s taken my T from the very bottom of the female range to the middle of it. Impressive, given I have no ovaries (in cis women, testosterone comes from both the ovaries and adrenals).
Explains why my sex drive has been a bit higher of late, I guess.
ohhh, see I’ve been on dexamphetamine since before grs and I keep hearing my T is high for a post-op trans woman (but normal for a cis woman) and now I know why!
Noticed when driving on Elvanse that I have to actively scan for hazards which I just knew about before.
This is making me be super careful when driving.
For those who don’t have ADHD, it’s really badly named. We don’t have an attention deficit at all. We just can’t control what it’s focusing on for long.
Basically our brains are constantly processing the entire input stream from our environment. All of it. You have no idea how utterly overwhelming this is until it switches off for the first time.
And then there’s a moment of clarity, before which you were listening to every radio station in the world simultaneously and always have been.
And now you’re just listening to one.
But with driving, I think that was actually making me a safer driver because it’s hard to become target fixated when your neurology basically can’t do that.
Something for me to be aware of. Now I have to choose to scan for hazards.
Or drive unmedicated.
Apparently if you’re a pilot with ADHD, your
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Noticed when driving on Elvanse that I have to actively scan for hazards which I just knew about before.
This is making me be super careful when driving.
For those who don’t have ADHD, it’s really badly named. We don’t have an attention deficit at all. We just can’t control what it’s focusing on for long.
Basically our brains are constantly processing the entire input stream from our environment. All of it. You have no idea how utterly overwhelming this is until it switches off for the first time.
And then there’s a moment of clarity, before which you were listening to every radio station in the world simultaneously and always have been.
And now you’re just listening to one.
But with driving, I think that was actually making me a safer driver because it’s hard to become target fixated when your neurology basically can’t do that.
Something for me to be aware of. Now I have to choose to scan for hazards.
Or drive unmedicated.
Apparently if you’re a pilot with ADHD, your medical requires you to fly unmedicated. I now understand why.
Before medication I had about one minor accident per year where I bumped something while parking or smaller stuff like speeding because I didn't notice the sign.
That immediately stopped alltogether. For about 5 years now: Zero accidents and no tickets while driving medicated.
One night my son fell out of his bed and hit his chin on something he build from lego, receiving a big laceration. Usually we clamp those ourselves but that one was too big for us, so I put him in my car and drove to the hospital at 3am. Unmedicated. I rushed over at least one red light, probably two. I was the only car out there that night so nothing happened. But I was shocked anyway.
The doctor saw the laceration and said "Well, I would not clamp that one either, this needs stitches for sure!" so we did the right thing. 😅
Next time this happens I'll take one Medikinet for the road...
this is very different to my experience because without meds I sometimes just forgot to look before changing lanes or something and with meds I’m way more structured and thus safer. I’m safe enough without them, but definitely safer with.
@marlies It is cool how we're responding differently to this. @Zoë O'Connell started Elvanse at the same time I did and she's reporting a similar experience to mine.
Perhaps my subconscious is trustworthy, but it is freaking me out that I'm not constantly scanning ... everything, automatically.
@zoe yeah I think without meds I had a tendency to scan without always actually perceiving? Like, overcompensating/dealing with the overload by subconsciously discarding too much input. It’s hard to explain.
@marlies @Zoë O'Connell I have suspected for some time that driving activates my hyperfocus (and I do like doing it a lot). Maybe that’s why I’m noticing this.
@marlies @zoe a friend with quite debilitating ADHD talks about driving activating hyper focus for her. Not sure if meds changed that for her, she often ends up unmedicated due to NHS fuckery.
Always interesting seeing variation in what meds do and don't allow and how to balance desirable and less-desirable things and learning to live with a changed neurology.
ADHD med titration continues apace. I’m sticking with 50mg Elvanse (lisdexamfetamine) and adding in 10mg Amfexa (dexamphetamine) as a booster to get me through the evening.
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Honestly, it's one of the small things that make me wonder if she's really neurotypical or rather "one of us".
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