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Men declaring that “blockers” should be illegal is kinda monkey-paw-tastic.

Should we tell them that they were actually developed to treat prostate cancer?

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Ha! A bit of sciencing reveals that my new dental implant crown, while colour matched perfectly under visible light, is a completely different colour to its neighbouring teeth under UV.

No reason why it wouldn't be, I guess. It's designed to look real to human vision, which it does, apart from the little blob of epoxy filling covering the screw head.

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I am here for transphobes voluntarily sending themselves to prison. rte.ie/news/courts/2024/0322/1…

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I hate how the judiciary are falling over themselves to believe this cis white man can 'behave'. Would they be offering the same kind of anything to a more marginalised person?


Turns out that Threads posts, while we can see them here in the fediverse, can’t see any of our replies to them.

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sell threads to us without the risk that they'll decide to move to the fedi
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@Sarah Brown is this based on what they announced, or did you actually check?

I had half an idea to check, but that involved

a) interacting with a post coming from threads
b) enabling javascript from the threads server

and that's was more than I was willing to do 😁

in reply to Elena ``of Valhalla''

so, to recap,

  • the smartest people with accounts on threads (it's a bit of a contradiction)
  • from just 3 countries
  • that do opt in in their settings

can be followed by us, without reading our replies

i'm not impressed, i'll think about when some personal old uncle will succeed to find me the other way around

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@Elena ``of Valhalla'' based on what they announced. However, if you go and look on the source website (you don’t need a threads account to do so), there are no replies showing from outside Threads.


Just saying you guys, hat as long as we keep leaping to "let's make murderbots with the thinking sand!", maybe we should hold off on the whole "teaching sand to think" thing?


Having a dental implant crown finally fitted to replace a tooth that’s been missing for 4 years, especially when it was your biggest molar, is a profoundly weird feeling.


Anyone know about Synologies?

I have a Drobo 5N2, which is obviously orphanware.

I want a Synology to do much the same job. What should I get?

in reply to Sarah Brown

so i have a Synology and it was a bad experience because:

1. they will happily sell small ones where the hardware just isn't up to running the current bloated version of the OS

(specifically I got a DS216 then discovered this new device was below the *stated* reqs)

2. the BIOS is DRMed so you can't just put Debian on it or something sensible.

i have cut down enough of the software, including forcibly deleting bloated shit and making it impossible to auto-reinstall it, that it can serve SMB without running out of CPU

if this thing blows up or catches fire I'll probably get an old HP Microserver (near-silent, reputedly) and run a proper OS on it

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in reply to Sarah Brown

I got a DS1019+ (in 2019) to replace my Drobo 5N. It's Just Worked since, but I'm not doing anything very complicated with it.

Looks like the closest current model is the DS1522+ (although that's 2022 hardware).

I like that the storage is just a pile of Linux and can be recovered on any PC.

I tried using it as a general Linux server, it's doable but the OS is a bit too opinionated to make that pleasant. Now it's just NFS mounted to a separate Debian box, as well as CIFS shares.

in reply to mobbsy

@mobbsy yeah - the software looks very cool until you try to use it like it's a linux box and not a very cut-down appliance
in reply to mobbsy

@mobbsy I just want it to serve files on a RAID. Got other stuff for generic server things.


Things I learned on the internet: apparently the country where a deranged tantrum-prone egomaniac fascist with dementia is leading the polls has a problem with its public education system.

How surprising!

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This analogue landline turnoff at the end of this year is going to be a disaster for older folk. Less than nine months to go and the only official advice is "you may need to buy extra new equipment" *mic drop*.

No advice as to the equipment, nor where they've planted the magic money tree.

Yes *I* know what to do, and yes, *I* can afford it.

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@chiffchaff It's been so completely unadvertised. Although to be fair I don't really consume any advertisement channels these days. But no household leafleting, letters from provider ... I might have had an email, but I think I found out about it by accident (and I'm not even sure how).

I'm still wondering how many rural exchanges still don't have fibre connection. Our old place up the valley certainly didn't last time I checked. How are they expected to cope?

@kæt
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Sorry for making this a reply to your unrelated toot. It was supposed to be top-level. Not saure what happened: I guess I just forgot what I was doing!


Cis people on Reddit be like, "a trans woman would never need a gynaecologist, and they'd never ask if you might be pregnant because they could tell, and anyway, it will be in your notes, which they will have read".

And I'm like, "literally everything you just said is wrong"

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@NatalyaD
I'm super super lucky with my GP. She seems to have an eidetic memory or something; she will say things like "I wouldn't normally recommend X but given your history of Y and that you're taking Z, I think it's appropriate".

(this is not calling you a liar; I've had waaaay too much healthcare in my life, and the majority are definitely the sort you describe. And I guess GPs are a different kind of thing in terms of having a long-term relationship with their patients.)




Move over Blåhaj, there’s a new ferret in town!
bsky.app/profile/ciara2001.bsk…
in reply to Sarah Brown

I’m coming late to understanding the Blåhaj references, but then I haven’t been to IKEA in the last five years.


I, for one, welcome the support of our catsnake friends and allies.


Former UK prime minister Liz Truss’s recent attempt to ban transgender women from female spaces ran out of time and will now not be debated after MPs joined forces to “talk it out” for five hours, including discussing ferret name choices.

#transgender #trans #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA

thepinknews.com/2024/03/16/liz…


in reply to Sarah Brown

@transworld Poor Liz is going to have to report that failure to her Christian Nationalist and Neoliberal friends back in the US. One day they might realise she’s a failure in a House that is supposedly master of the Reverse Ferret.
in reply to Sarah Brown

@transworld disappointed no MP managed to get in what to feed to ferrets - lettuce?


Caffeine reduces anxiety in me. An espresso is more effective than diazepam. The web is full of results that say this is impossible

And yet …

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in reply to Sarah Brown

covered this in passing in psych 111 circa 1981. Dunning-Kruger may not hold up mathematically, but this is a great example of a case where it's an empirical reality.


Caffeine reduces anxiety in me. An espresso is more effective than diazepam. The web is full of results that say this is impossible

And yet …

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@rob Espresso about 15 minutes ago. I am actually struggling to stay awake.
@rob
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well, here's hoping you have a really good night. I'm hoping for the same after a bottle of retsina (which is about half a bottle more than I meant to drink when I started).
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@rob Ooh I’ve not had retsina for ages, probably since before the Eraina closed
@rob
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@ajlanes I stockpiled quite a few before brexit could make inroads into the supply to the UK.....
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Bang! 8 hours. Awake now. Sleep
Cycle reset. Doctors hate this one simple trick.


Anyone else feel like we need a name for the USA, Russia and China like, “The Axis of Can U Not?”

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Reminds me of somebody I knew in the 1980s with a 2CV being tailgated by a BMW. He went over a speed bump at the full speed limit which the 2CV didn't notice, of course, but the BMW did. No actual damage as far we know (unfortunately) but he did see the BMW driver holding his head.
in reply to Ed Davies

@Ed Davies A lot of speed bumps here are the type where you can take them at speed if you hit them dead centre. They're fun with tailgaters too!


Dear United States; behold your future.


Here's what we're reading today:

Presidential elections have begun in #Russia. #Putin will be re-elected for a 5th term.

According to Ukr intelligence, the Russian DefMin has allowed military personnel fighting in #Ukraine to vote for Putin without even showing up at a polling station. This includes those who have already been killed or gone missing.

This makes it easier to falsify the results.

pravda.com.ua/eng/news/2024/03…


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Tim Mak was invited as guest in the latest Q&A session of the Kyiv Independent, was worth listening to.


US Pol, fucking idiots

See news headline including words, “Trump is currently leading the polls”.

What the fuck is wrong with you people?

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Watching discussions of cross border rail ticketing in Europe on my TL while living in Portugal and being like, “you guys have trains that go to other places?”

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@TimWardCam Likely bollocks. Although I haven’t read it fully, the determination of the gauge was made in this 1844 doc, based on technical criteria (allows narrower curves which was handy given the local orography, faster trains and less wearing out). They recommend 6ft, which seems higher than the current Iberian gauge, but that can probably be explained by the feet as unit of measurement being shorter in Spain in 1844 than it is today in the imperial system. agrupament.cat/documents/Infor…
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@TimWardCam According to what I’m seeing, a feet at that time in Spain would be approx 278.6mm, which results in 1671.6mm, very close to the original Spanish gauge (which was then slightly reduced to be compatible with the Portuguese one).


Putin: I will destroy the alliance you built and remake the world in my image.

US politicians: Sure. Cool. No worries.

China: Here is an annoying robot lady narrating cat videos.

US politicians: 💣🔫⚔️🤬🤬🤬

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Cis people have decided that trans people do not merit healthcare.

Cis people have decided that trans people do not merit equality.

Cis people have decided that trans people do not merit justice.

Why should trans people recognise any kind of legitimacy cis opinions about us when they won’t even recognise our humanity?

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in reply to Sarah Brown

Recent cis pronouncements:


  • Trans people beaten to death is suicide.
  • Trans people are too stupid to deserve healthcare
  • Trans people had it coming when the OG Nazis tried to exterminate us.


Fuck your cis-supremacy.

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transphobia
I see another cis investigator has decided that there should be no consequences of any kind for any kind of transphobia, even if the trans person dies, again.
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Do cis people in the UK actually think there has ever been a point at which transgender medicine was widely and routinely available on the NHS?

Guys, it never has. When they exist at all, the services are chronically underfunded with waiting lists that literally stretch for decades.

To a first approximation, if you want to medically transition in the UK, you are on your own, unless you want to fight a war of attrition for years.

TERFs like to pretend that you can easily access NHS gender identity services as if it were just a thing people do.

It appears some people have believed their fairy tales. However badly you think trans people are treated by the medical establishment in the UK, I promise you that the reality is worse, and always has been.

“Children on puberty blockers”. Fucking state of it. There are no children on puberty blockers. Not because they’re trans, anyway.

in reply to Sarah Brown

Totally endorse your summary of the lies, but there is a difference between underfunded and an exercise in bloody-mindedness on the one hand and wholly unavailable on the other. Many of us have no choice but to grit our teeth and grind through the system. Which is as bad as you say.
in reply to Isabel Ruffell

@Isabel Ruffell I transitioned with a lot of people who tried and were unable to access it.

Even at the peak of trans acceptance in the UK, being able to access ANYTHING depended on your postcode at least, and probably a few other things. Some PCTs as we’re basically refused to refer anyone for anything at all.

At which point, you either had the money to go round them, or you found ways to get it 😞

in reply to Sarah Brown

yes, my first attempt at transitioning was without any guarantee that the local health authority would pay for anything but hormones (and having to persuade the local shrinks to refer me to a GIC at all). I am now in my ninth year of a second attempt. Now that I am relatively close to finishing, I am in a position to make other arrangements, but that wasn't the case earlier. And it is awful that I feel fortunate to have made it so far, but then I conside whatr other folk face.
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I basically had to self fund treatment to a certain extent but was incredibly lucky, combined with have a great GP, and being in Wales where they didn’t have a GIC at the time, that surgery was referred directly so I was one of those rare people who went to Heywards Heath. My partner did not so I used what I had saved, expecting I would have to pay, to pay for her. I know plenty who did the exceptionally slow NHS grind. I was just lucky with my circumstances.
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I would love to ask a TERF to summarise their achievements in removing healthcare from trans people, and then summarise how easy it is for trans people to get it now. They know, of course they do. It's all doublethink.


“NHS to end practice of back rubs for Godzilla”

If you think the NHS was ever actually giving trans children puberty blockers, then I’m afraid you have fallen for a TERF fairy tale. The NHS has never actually done decent treatment for trans children. news.sky.com/story/children-to…

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For reference, the daughter in question turns 13 soon. And it's not that anyone was trying to give puberty blockers to an eight-year-old, but the battle was to get her the possibility of having them when they would help.
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@David Matthewman Ok. Credit to her parents for fighting that battle, and maybe the Tavistock might have considered possibly doing it on a trial basis at some point (“maybe” is doing a lot of work there), but they basically don’t do that, and never have. Their standard mode of operation is to just keep talking until people age out of their service and can join an adult GIC waiting list.

The headline is literally just a reaffirmation of the way the NHS has always behaved. It’s giving the impression that it’s ending a practice of medical intervention for trans kids.

But to end something, it has to have started in the first place.

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Long form - thoughts on Portuguese elections


Treated myself to a fancy-pants cast iron teapot, lads! It's a bit sexy.

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@zip (easter themed) it’s emitting a field of an unknown type that our sensors can’t detect.
@zip


World press: Far right surges on Portugal elections!

I mean, yes, as someone who lives in Portugal, it's scary as hell, but in the ongoing love affair that the western press has with fascists, let's not lose sight of the fact that this "surge" is actually them coming third, and not a particularly close third either.

What's worrying is that there's no stable coalition without either them, or the centre right and centre left joining forces.

Hopefully this will be their high water mark.

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honestly, I’d rather have news media freaking out and overreacting about fascists than their usual normalization and hagiography of extreme right politicians
in reply to Chris Packham

@Chris Packham watching the TV news last night, they’re still doing the latter.

Chega, by the way, is probably to the left of the Tories.



There are worse places to go for an afternoon stroll. Just over a kilometre from my apartment.

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The layers in those rocks are gorgeous. Millions of years of history on display in one view.


Seeing people asking which fediverse servers block Bluesky.

And like, if you’re gonna be performative about this, maybe try getting the first clue what you’re actually talking about first?



It’s been a week since my MMR and my immune system is noticing. Feel yuck. Joints hurt. Throat a bit swollen.

Although apparently live vaccines are really good for you, so there’s that.

Might be paracetamol time.

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West Lawns⚡️
We had separate vaccines at school.
in reply to West Lawns⚡️

@West Lawns I had a single dose measles vaccine which is now regarded as insufficient. Nothing against mumps, and AIUI not rubella.


There are entire episodes of Air Crash Investigation about this. They’re usually the “everyone dies” episodes.
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@Alisdair Calder McGregor I guess it depends which way it initially tumbles. Could generate a pretty violent lift vector taking it either towards or away from the tail.


I drive with the doors unlocked.
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I have the seat headrest posts. I've always been told that it's the reason they are removable.


Being a grown-ass adult, I just caramelised and ate an entire sweet onion.

Because I can.



suicide mention

When I first visited the US and saw pills came in bottles rather than blister packs, it was one of those little culture shock things.

But for years I never knew why the difference existed.

That changed recently. The popularity of blister packs in Europe is a suicide-prevention method.

It's dead easy to open a bottle and neck the contents. Try it with a blister pack and you get bored.

Apparently this is a real effect.

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“So sometimes my roommate, with whom I’ve been paying a mortgage for 10 years and looking after a herd of cats, does me against the wall with a strap on. Do you think I should risk telling her I have feelings for her? I’m pretty sure she’s straight.” reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpd…

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Dental surgeon just tried to fit my new crown to the implant.

Turned out it has to go back to the lab because it's too big, but it took 3 attempts with a bit of on-site drilling before he gave up.

Screwing it down deforms the gum and crushes it between the crown and the bone, which hurts. He told me to tell him when it got too much and he would pause, which I did, but a long time after he seemed to be expecting me to.

He's like, "waiting for your feedback..." and I just gave him a thumbs up, and his face is kinda like, "This should be hurting. Why aren't you yelling?"

I think trans women get kinda messed up pain thresholds, you guys.

Anyway, it has to go back to the lab for a resize, because it's too big. Also the wrong colour, because they did not account for UK and Ireland levels of tea consumption.

in reply to Sarah Brown

Hah! I have my first appointment for my implant the week after next.

Nice to know I have all that fun to look forward to 😀

Anyway, hope the lab comes through with the goods for you next time.

in reply to Adam Jacobs 🇺🇦

@Adam Jacobs 🇺🇦 Hoping for a perfect fit next time.

Today was uncomfortable but it didn't last long. Having the implant put in is a bit of a slog, but it didn't hurt. Hope all goes well. It's a bit of a process.



I appear to have acquired a surf instructor.

9 hours later, it appears that this is monumentally painful.



I sense a great disturbance in the socials, as if a billion boomers all cried out at once #Facebook
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if a boomer cries out because Facebook is down, can anyone hear them?

...

Never mind, I got my answer. Receiving WhatsApp messages from family members asking for IT support