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Dear god, I just hit 50.

How the hell did that happen?



Just watched the “Death of Stalin” episode of The Spanish Princess.

Whoever wrote this clearly has OPINIONS about Margaret Beaufort.

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That aside, it does a very good job of portraying the Tudors’ weird murder fetish.


Just rewatched episode “Q Who” of TNG (the one where they encounter the Borg for the first time), and I feel like Guinan really should have been far more shit scared than she was.

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@Sarah Brown Going to have to rewatch that - they really introduced such a significant part of TNG-era lore in a Q episode?
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@Alexandra Lanes Yeah. Q is like, "you have no idea what's out there" and Picard is like, "show me", and Guinan is like, "this place is not safe, turn round and leave", and Picard is like, "lol whatevs"




Watching The Spanish Princess on HBO Max.

Dunno how accurate their portrayal of Margaret Beaufort is, but they’re portraying her as exactly the sort of woman who would wield power in the court of a Tudor monarch and yet still die of old age.

And if she was anything like that, then she’d have been beyond terrifying IRL, and an utter inspiration.

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That's consistent with her portrayal in The Red Queen, by Philippa Gregory.


I’m enjoying the batshittery that is Carrot Weather on maximum profanity and irreverence, in my own voice.
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hahaha I love carrot weather, I recommend it one of my friends and they came back to a couple of hours later and said “this app is insane” fantastic forecasts and personally


Michael O’Leary is the businessman that Elon Musk wishes he was.


Rewatched Star Trek First Contact, of which I have fond memories, recently.

It's aged VERY badly.

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@alastair87 @sarahdal they definitely set it up for one. Hopefully paramount will pick it up.


I’d like to wish all the mealybugs on my balcony a very happy acetamiprid.

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I didn’t want to use pesticide, you little sap sucking extinction level bastards. LOOK WHAT YOU MADE ME DO.

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I can use it on my lemon tree as well, even though it has lemons on it. Half life of acetamiprid in fruit is 4 days (I checked), and it won’t be ripe until December.
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@Alexandra Lanes Can't set it as Siri's voice (yet?)

But a generative AI with my dead mum's voice? Maybe.

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@Sarah Brown If you could set that as Siri’s voice you might feel bad about shouting at her when she’s a stupid robot.


Just seen the new iPhone in the flesh. Not planning to get one, but the 15 pro is very sexy
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The one thing actually bad is the battery. The rest is perfectly fine. Not doing anything that requires a faster phone or a fancier camera (sad to hear about the shit image enhancing stupidity they added that seems to make everything look fake).


HomePod: "And did those feet, in ancient times, walk upon England's mountains green?"

Me: "No"

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Apropos of conversation elsewhere, any other Gen X Brits remember CUB monitors?

“Let’s put an electron gun and high frequency electromagnets inside a steel box and then give it to 8 year olds because we hate kids and think electrocuting them is funny!”

It was a different time.

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yes, or school had them, with BBC model Bs. Seeing an RGB monitor after the fuzzy mishmash produced on a colour TV by an RF modulator was a revelation!


It’s my former political party, the UK Liberal Democrats, conference starting in Bournemouth today.

This likely means the usual TERF suspects are planning to engage in stupid bullshit. Usually this takes the form of trying to submit wrecking amendments to any motion aimed at improving women’s position in society.

For some reason, the uk media insists on referring to these people as “feminists”.

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much empathy from the Greens where we have the same damn problem every year. It’s so tiring and I wish we could get rid of them like the Scottish Greens did.
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@samsterby i was in the GPEW and left for that reason. unwillingness in the leadership to actually confront this problem. (the election of a leadership whose candidacy was pretty much marked by silence on the issue.)
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@Rachel Greenham @Sam Easterby-Smith That sounds distressingly familiar.

And you let the problem grow, and then it turns round and bites you in the arse.

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the uk is in dire need of a political party that isn’t either working on or seriously considering genociding trans women


I kinda feel like the whole “middle aged women having a sense of humour based massively around filthy innuendo and scatology” is a thing. Am I wrong?

Like, I’m driving yesterday and there’s a bag of liquorice chews in my lap, and I offered one to @Zoe O'Connell and I’m like, “don’t worry, there’s no hole in the bottom”.

Peak fucking hilarity right there.

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05:00?!?!

To whom do I complain about this bullshit? Stupid brain refusing to sleep.



When I left Portugal for the summer I dared to hope I had eradicated my mealybug infestation on the balcony.

But I returned last week to find they had survived in the soil of my Lantana and had already started to spread to the neighbouring lime tree.

Not having it. If left unchecked, they will destroy EVERYTHING.

I sprayed them with a shedload of isopropyl alcohol, followed by double concentration deltamethrin, and then today, some systemic neonicotinoid spray (it’s ok, they aren’t flowering, it won’t hurt bees).

I aso removed ALL foliage from the Lantana, and threw it in the bin.

I am daring to hope t hat will be it, but I’m going to be utterly paranoid over the next 6 months, and at the first sign of ANYTHING, out comes the nuclear pesticide regime again.

They started this. I’m finishing it. At least they can’t fly, so once they’re gone, they’re gone.



Wow! Natalie the Bird is on r/compoface for being cancelled by TEH TRANZ in the Daily Mail.

According to a barely legible black smudge, she was a “would be MP” but the transes cancelled her. Shocking!

Except, and this is slightly inconvenient for her, I have some considerable familiarity with ol’ ms Bird here and the real reason she can’t be an MP is that she is the platonic reference Dunning Kruger effect. This is someone would would fail, by a long way, to meet the abysmally low bar set by Liz Truss and that Tory bloke who thinks women’s blood doesn’t clot when there’s a full moon.

r/compoface is the wrong community for her. R/StoriesAboutKevin, on the other hand, would be perfect.

reddit.com/r/compoface/s/rHn9A…

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Did she turn up for the photoshoot shit-faced? They've had to give her something to hold on to.
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@BoneHouseWasps 🔶 I expect she saw something that startled her. Maybe she thought her reflection in the photographer’s lens was a scary trans Naatalie doppelgänger clone or something.


Apologies for the unorthodox communication style, but I’m trying to reach out to the TERFs in whose heads I live rent-free.

Anyway, this is a tenant query: I want to put up a big poster of Marsha Johnson throwing a brick. Am I allowed to use bluetac, or similar, on the inner surface of the bone?

Please indicate “yes” by liking this post.

Hugs and kisses, etc




Bit of a long shot. Any post op trans women reading this had a dental implant with bone regeneration and able to share their experiences? I had one placed yesterday and am vaguely worried that I won’t get the needed bone growth (18 years HRT, 17 years postop)
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@Ghost of Hope This is regeneration rather than healing per-se, so I don’t know if ur generalised (I fractured a finger recently and it healed fine)
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@Abi Apparently it messes with rates of bone remodelling.
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Have entered the weird “all body odours gone” stage of being on amoxicillin.
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Stilton cheese? Are you eating that or is it just similar in smell to pee?
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@Ted Stilton is flavoured by a member of the penicillin genus.

Amoxicillin is a penicillin derivative.

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Oh! Well, I'm pretty naive about these microbiology topics, but glad to know you're making "progress."


Apropos of the scary shit that’s going on for trans people around the world right now, the concept of “birth certificate laundering” seems to be becoming a thing.

It goes like this: you transition and go through gender recognition somewhere hostile, like the UK. You get a new birth certificate (for now?) but you are still “on the list”, and they know if they look hard enough; the original record is still there.

But then you naturalise or register as a citizen of another country (Ireland, for those able to via the grandparent route, for example, naturalisation through residence and assimilation in my case), and when you naturalise you give them the post gender recognition birth certificate.

That breaks the link. Your country of new citizenship registers your birth and, at as far as they are concerned, you are “legally cis”.

And if they start hunting us via gender recognition records, we can hopefully hide.

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@Empathic Qubit Not sure what sort of medical care I’m missing? They know I take oestrogen. They don’t know why. That’s all they need to know.

They just did a mammogram because I’m turning 50. Again, need to know basis.



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So had a dental implant abutment placed today, with bone regeneration. Going to take a few months before there’s likely enough bone to attach the crown, and I suspect being a trans woman will likely affect the rate of bone growth, but we shall see.

Anyway, the procedure itself was painless. Just lots of shoving and scary noises for an hour or so. Then he sewed my gum shut over the abutment (which he placed with something akin to a ratchet screwdriver!), and sent me on my way with nuclear doses of paracetamol, ibuprofen, and an 8 day course of antibiotics.

Going back in a week to have the stitches out. Will have to get used to not smelling of anything in the meantime. Will probably get thrush, because I usually do on antibiotics, but will cross that bridge if I come to it.

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Not particularly keen on dentists, so the thought of surgery in my mouth isn't my idea of fun. But any other surgery and I'm like, bring it on!!


I understand there are those of the opinion that trans people “don’t help ourselves” with public displays of anger about the way we are treated.

So I have a question to those who believe this. If we go and sit quietly and stop making a fuss, what exactly are you going to do differently as a result? What is it you’re going to do to make this worth our while, that will improve our lot? Something concrete?


Yeah. Thought so.

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I don't condone violence to any degree, but when someone tried bullying me at school and I decked them, it soon stopped. The kids that meekly took it got it until the day they left. The reason I got into the decking situation was because I said to a bullied kid I was going to do something about it, and he went running off to the bully and grassed on me! (I'm sure we know of trans people who do similar in the hope of appeasing their bullies).


This is a special sub post request for Paul and Zoe. A special couple who really need to go touch some grass.

Preferably on Mars.

Ok, rock then. Go touch rock, on Mars.

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Conversation the other day:

It's quite something how quickly Elon Musk managed to become the third most hated man in the world.

It's also quite something how we don't need to name 1 and 2.

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So they think they've found the wreckage of that F35, but aren't sure?

Like, have you tried turning the key in the ignition and seeing if the jets start? If not, it's probably wreckage.

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They can't see it yet; someone tripped over something invisible and now they're waiting for some guys with paint cans to throw over it and reveal what it is.


ARGH! ARGH! ARGH! Thought I’d seen the last of these bastard things (Australian mealybug).

But it appears some survived my total war back in June, presumably by hiding through the summer in the soil.

As a holding pattern, they’ve got a heavy dose of Chateau Isopropyl 2023 while I go and procure more pesticide.

I swear, they’re harder to get rid of than a fucking TERF infestation.

And if not dealt with, they will cause total ecosystem collapse amongst my plants. They kill everything.

I hate them so much.

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Now I'm back in Southern Europe, I can go for a McDonalds. You have NO idea how significant this is for someone who has to follow a strict gluten free diet!
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Interesting. McDonalds would be pretty much my last choice in Portugal, but it’s good to know they care. Some places here only offer a lettuce wrap or nothing at all.


Left Portugal for the UK 85 days ago. Left my Nissan Leaf E+ sitting in the garage on 45% charge.

Got back today. Turned it on. 43%

Nice

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@Breadbin Lol, phones gonna phone!

2% on a Leaf E+ is like 1.2kWh though, which is quite a lot of energy!

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My battery performance is “significantly degraded” apparently 😀 In all seriousness though. 5 years of 24/7 on and lots of use is pretty impressive.

I haven’t made the leap to electric, bet it’s a whole new world to discover and stats and ways of doing things:)

(The reason is that I drive my car maybe 10 times a year, so, yeah. Not much use.)



I have spent 2 months trying to, if not love, tolerate the halogen hob.

30 seconds on my induction hob later: THE HALOGEN HAS TO GO!

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Every time I come back to Vancouver it’s like going back to the past. I have a gas stove here, my parents are already using induction. Things take sooooo long to heat up with gas. When I get there, during the first days I keep boiling things over, lol. And realizing how easy it is to clean afterward. And of course, CO2, toxic fumes, explosions, etc.
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@Miguel Arroz Halogen is about the same speed as gas. maybe very slightly slower.

And it has the advantage of not being utterly filthy, which it shares with induction.

But it's not induction



So @Zoe O'Connell has got her Geiger counter out in the middle of Stansted departure lounge, like she’s trying to get us rendered to a fucking black site or some shit.
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@Zoë O'Connell Look at the massive radon ridge over where I grew up! Explains my sunny demeanour and extra head…


Portugal has a great scheme for waste disposal from apartments:

There are big communal bins by each apartment block. The council comes and empties them.

England has a similar scheme:

There are big communal bins by each apartment block.

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I have often seen the question asked, “why are so many trans women so aggressive/combative”.

And the answer is that we don’t start out being, but we quickly learn that expecting people to be decent human beings towards us because it’s the right thing to do doesn’t work.

It only works if we make it harder to not treat us like human beings than vice versa.

I don’t feel like that’s on us to fix.

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@markusl @breadbin Laws don't protect people who can't afford lawyers.
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Alternative hypothesis:

"Why are all these people who are hurting and sore from the wounds their life has given them so sensitive and quick to bark out in pain when poked in old wounds...?"

Because I see a lot of the same "aggression" from chronic pain people and minority groups and I think it comes from ....

Oh gods I'm just restating what you said. Sorry.



All those county and western songs where the cheating bloke gets murdered? I like to think that, in each case, his last words were, “calm down, dear”.


Rando: "Trans women are basically the same as men"

Trans women: "The fuck? That's incredibly transmisogynist!"

Others: "Shush dears, don't worry your little brains. You just didn't understand what he meant."

Like, can you actually believe this shit?