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The world had gone mad. Utterly mad.

I mean, I’ve got the whole “is a bit insane” diagnosis and even then … this whole “venerate the dead Nazi” thing is beyond batshit even for me.

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The only good Nazi is a dead one but I get your point. Honestly, I’d never heard of him until he got shot. 🤷🏻‍♂️
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at this point I'm really having second thoughts about going back in time to kill Hitler.


Alpha methylphenethylamine

_A_lpha
_M_ethyl
_Ph_en
_Et_hyl
_Amine_

A_M_Ph_Et_Amine

Obvious when you realise!

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@marlies And look up its systemic name on Wikipedia having taken loads of it.

Anyway, very fond of it



In today’s episode of “Insights From Alpha Methylphenethylamine”, comes the realisation of how two ADHDers communicating, especially if they like each other, will dance around the usually unspoken elephant in the room, RSD, in a way that usually never specifically acknowledges it.

If they don’t like each other, it may get weaponised. This is the ADHD equivalent of “mean girls” behaviour.

This is not a subpost.

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Oh, you’re a polyamorous trans lesbian, are you? I’m gonna need to verify that. Name five different brands of methylphenidate.


Researchers use neurotypical volunteers to calibrate MRI machines across sites and remove the machine-introduced noise. Suddenly structural differences in ADHD brains, which were being masked by the noise, become clearer to see. newatlas.com/adhd-autism/adhd-…
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It is quite a problem to calibrate the physical responses of the different machines to a common standard, and then calibrate all the inversion software to produce consistent results.
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be careful with your assumptions. So far the history of MRI studies linked to psychology or personality, is littered with greater diversity within the class of interest or controls, than the mean difference. Whilst reducing the noise will reduce the in group diversity, hence increase the 'significance' of any parameter difference, the categorisation of people by an MRI remains unwise, it certainly should not be used for diagnosis.
Humans are nonergodic, hence diagnose the person!


I’m curious. If you’re neurotypical and reading this, do you get “vibes” from people with ADHD? If so, can you describe them?

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The only person I _know_ has ADHD is sensitive, empathetic, caring, clever, creative, lovely, sometimes overly self-criticising, can be emotional and messy in their thinking, in situations where a cooler head would be more useful to themself. Doesn't manage stress well. They is very verbal and can argue that every possibility, individually, is impossible, thus systematically closing every door. But when opportunity knocks, they can OTOH be very flexible and open to it.


“I hear this is the biggest sissy porn website in Ireland!”


Bear accused of shitting in woods


Sweden accuses Russia of GPS jamming over Baltic Sea


The agency said the source of the interference had been traced to Russian territory, and also affected shipping. Other European nations have accused Russia of being behind the jamming, which Moscow denies.




Elvanse slowly bringing my dopamine and noradrenaline levels up and I’m simply not prepared to abuse adrenaline to survive airports any more.


Might have mistimed the ADHD meds booster a bit, lads.

Oops

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Have fun falling asleep tonight! 😅

Yeah, been there. Happens sooner or later to all of us.

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@Momo I’m struggling to stay awake right now as it happens.
@Momo


CW: ideation

Had to impose screen time limits on bluesky. Doom scrolling it was literally making me suicidal.

My feed here is nothing like that

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CW: ideation

Sensitive content

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CW: ideation
Absolutely the same as you re BSky even just reading stuff. It's a bit more eclectic and human here. Do take care.




You know how neurotypical people talk about how they make and hold eye contact?

It’s a lie. They do no such thing. I can do it on ADHD meds and if you don’t look away it really freaks them out.

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@koen_hufkens

I’m on a tiny instance and don’t always see all comments so maybe this has been answered already.

IIRC, it’s not so much about •staring• into someone else’s eyes, but about the patterns with which NT and ND people scan faces. What parts we look at and when, in which order, and how often etc. That’s usually intuitive, and those patterns differ.

So when I talk to some NT person, they feel I’m kind of strange, or even dishonest. They may not even realise why they feel it, or they may think I’m avoiding to look at them the way they instinctively expect.

And when I talk to other autistics or auDHD people, I feel more comfortable around our interaction as well. So it goes both ways, of course.


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Dramatic skies over Hendaye marina at the base of the Pyrenees today!

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Sharing my departure and arrival details on the orca attack WhatsApp has a very “shit has got real” feeling to it. Have to be careful from here on in.


Operation Churro, moving Scarlet to the French/Spanish border, ends after 172 nautical miles and 35 hours at sea. We are exhausted.


Been at sea for 32 hours and the Pyrenees have just emerged from the haze. We are nearly there.

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Last year Zoe and I commenced operation “Oui Oui Baguette” to move our boat, Scarlet, from Gosport to La Rochelle in France. This was interrupted by a small engine fire which left us stranded in the Brittany port of Quiberon over winter to make repairs.

Anyway, we moved the boat to La Rochelle a month ago. Today we commence “Operation Churro”. We plan to leave La Rochelle shortly and in a single leg of 36-40 hours in the Bay of Biscay arrive at Hendaye on the French/Spanish border.

The orcas were attacking boats in this area about a month ago but since then seem to have moved west and are now heading south from Galicia to Lisboa so we should be safe from them (fingers crossed). Weather looks ok. We will probably be motoring for the first part with the hope we can sail from later today.

If you want to track us, you can follow us live here. marinetraffic.com/en/ais/detai…

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While I’m much better these days at shedding the idea that summoning takeaway is a vice, cooking properly for myself still feels virtuous


“What you gonna do when you randomly have 12 months supply of HRT sitting around in your drawer, Sarah?”

“Build Oestrohenge!”

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Historians and archaeologists have debated for decades how on Earth trans people from 4-5,000 years ago could possibly have obtained oestrogen and moved it to a point on Salisbury Plain. Modern attempts to reconstruct such a journey have had mixed results, mostly failing at the point of obtaining a so-called script. One expedition nearly succeeded but was unable to get into the car park having spent all their money at Internet Pharmacy.


This, right here, is what I look like right after the Elvanse wears off.

Sad, isn’t it?



Ah, mal de debarquement syndrome (land sickness), my old friend! Been a while. Haven’t missed you.


At some point in the last 4 months since starting ADHD meds the state I regard as normal has swapped over.

I’m currently in the post medicated state and I feel like some confused scared shadow of a person terrified of her own emotions which she doesn’t understand and bemused by the world.

This used to be who I was all the time.

That’s a lot to come to terms with.

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Oh I get it now, thanks. Post-medicated as in, the part of each day when the meds wear off—not the part of your life after you started taking the meds.


So what’s it like being on amphetamine?

Well it’s a lot like being on HRT except you’d have to detransition every day before bed.



Long form ADHD brain dump
#adhd

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Long form ADHD brain dump
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Long form ADHD brain dump

@Valdus With some more exploration, timing the stimulants to run out just before bed, IF I then actually go to bed. Too long and not only do I lose the executive function to go to bed, the racing thoughts start up and keep me awake.

However, there's a nice little cheat mode to get round this that I've discovered, which I like to call, "a bedtime double espresso"



Trans on Trains, "just taken dexamphetamine" edition.


Amphetamine plus afternoon coffee always carries a risk of extreme eepiness. I feel a nap coming on.
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Ignore me, I didn’t mean to confuse or upset you. Just wishing you the best. 🤞


I feel like iPhone MagSafe has so much unrealised potential for carrying … stuff. Like I want a little pouch in which I can keep smell essentials. A sort of keyring plus.


I’m having a custom corset made because I’m worth it. Went for the fit test of the mockup today (the final thing is a sumptuous red with black lace detail).

Anyway, she’s gonna take it in another 2-3cm at the waist and give me more push up in the bust.

Exciting!

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I saw the medication news and I'm really happy it's working for you!
Me? I don't know how up you are on things ooop North.... I could talk about my wonderful partner @psotle , our travels and adventures, finding a job that feels *right*, we had a second cat for a few months...
I'll settle for life is good, I'm in a good place and really exciting adventure to come later this year ☺️


Labour have proposed a transphobe, Mary Ann Stephenson for next chair of the EHRC. The Women and Equalities Committee of the House of Commons will want to scrutinise this appointment. Help them understand why she’s a bad pick by signing this letter! #UKpol

docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAI…

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Selfies. One medicated, one unmedicated.

I feel like I’m leading a weird dual existence. Not two people but one person who has a consistent personality but two very different ways of being.

It’s so odd.



Male friends (I have male friends here right?) - have you heard of Ask for Angela?

(A man in The Archers didn’t know of it and I was wondering how likely it is for men to be aware of it.)

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Yes, although I wasn't completely confident I remembered what exactly it was for (I did) nor that I'd remember the name on demand.


I honestly did not expect starting ADHD meds to result in me seriously considering almost completely giving up alcohol.

Almost seems a shame. Whatever. Gotta move on.

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@Alexa Devreux-Swift I was mostly using it to relax.

But it’s kinda crap at that compared to amphetamine.



So, bit of a problem and it’s a nice problem to have, but still a problem.

The ADHD meds are working better than I’d dared hope.

I’m almost functionally neurotypical on them.

I have no neurotypical socialisation though. I’m a neurodiverse person cosplaying but not masking. Ok. Bit odd. Whatever.

Pretty much all of my friends are neurodiverse.

This appears to be fine amongst the ones who are ADHD and medicated.

The ones who aren’t though; I really need to stop making eye contact because I think I’m freaking them out.

Sorry everyone x



ADHD meds are dangerous! They cause hypertension! You must not take them! - some wankers.

The “hypertension”

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lolz, just tested, 148/102 😆 yeah... you do not have hypertension... but I do.
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@dee, love and enby Honestly I'm approaching the "don't stand up too quickly" zone.
@dee


Breakfast of champions (if your champion happens to be a chaos goblin). Clockwise from left: blood pressure monitor, cereal, water, protein yoghurt, lisdexamfetamine 50mg.

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This blows my mind. My sleep data from Apple Health over the last 6 months.

The green line marks the point I started amphetamines. It doesn’t make a lot of difference.

The red line: I read Sisters of Dorley

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@Heather 👻 Oh, doctors are no good for HRT. You want a transbian mad scientist coven for that.
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... Yeah I'm now considering this. Not the first to suggest it. Just not sure if I can easily access testing (or afford it). It's all bullshit.


Trying out more fediverse/distributed things and doing cross-positing from various places to Bluesky. Let's see how well this works!